Vietnam is a country with a long history with a very different culture of living and behavior in all three regions of North - Central - South. And there is mixed opinion about the South has a culture more liberal and polite than the North. Is that true?
Southerners live simply so everything is airy and pleasant. As for the North, they live in complexity and often become fake lifestyles. Enigmatic life and harsh climate also contributed to the temperament of the North people, the cultural behavior worse than the South.
Vietnam's Education Newspaper received a letter expressing support for this view of readers Trinh Hoang Hiep. For readers throughout the country can continue to discuss the issue of "talk badly," we would like to publish the text of this letter.
There is anecdotal comment that Hoai Thanh critic, author of immortal book "Vietnamese poet" during his stay in the South, said: "South Vietnamese people are all polite. Open your mouth to thank you for the excruciating apologies .. Sitting in the house, someone going out in the street to ask what is the answer that I finished, straighten the thief straight away, do not thank an hour, I know right away that the people in the North. In this way of saying he also shows that the culture of communication, behavior of the South ... eat the North.
Vietnam is divided into many distinct regions, originating in the North. This division clearly influences one's lifestyle and culture. Even in the voice, the communication language from North to South has changed, especially the two big cities of Hanoi and Saigon. Recently, the clips are posted on the network of habit, curse of students have made public opinion very angry, urgent: When the girls talk with the hands, clip two girls in war chaos, scramble with the boys in the capital cursed before the school gate. This is not just a school story but also a social story.
School violence in the North has been increasing with increasing danger and excessive levels of barbarism.
In the treatment of the superior, the North and South are different expression. If the North says "after" each question or answer, the South often cushion "advance", then "later". Since childhood, most children are taught such basic sacrifices but over time, as people grow older, the word "s" of the North is often cut. Maybe because "seriously" seriously, rigid and pedagogical, is no longer suitable for communication. The South still retains the word "dạ" or "spell" as a natural.
Although Hanoi is a cultural center, I find that in terms of elegance and sophistication, the North is much better than the South, but in terms of culture behaving in the community, the North learns from the South. . In the festivals, people in the South are less prone to shoving, shoving or deliberately harming them. They always have a sense of respect for others and protect themselves.
On how to use the two words "thank" and "sorry" the two regions also different. The North is very limited in the way these two words are spoken, as an unspoken rule when children tell their parents, grandparents, or younger people to talk to older people without knowing that they are communicating with them. The community is also very important. If you go out on the road in the North where you were hit by a car, tugged, pushed, you only get the rounded eyes, then the car in front. But Southern people are different, they are willing to say sorry if wrong.
In Saigon, the story of supermarkets, shops ... see the staff bending to greet people is very normal. But in Hanoi, you will be shocked to see someone bowing and say thank you - that is rare in the North. If you go on the road with a phone, northerners can drive while shouting, shouting in the middle of the street to prove who they are, but the South they will stop, stop the car on the roadside. story. When the city is empty, there are no traffic police. They stop at the red light, but the North is different. There is no need to look ahead and drive straight ahead.
From outside society, talk about the school story where they show the best way to behave. After school, if standing in a high school gate in the north will find that, just step out of the gate of the boys school to remove the "vin", lit up and started to "spit splash" to horror. , girls are ready to fight on the fight for very unequal reasons.
Every environment has urgent, students in the South are fighting each other, but the level of barbarism is not equal to the North. Pupils in the South just fighting each other, but rarely accompanied by offensive acts such as swearing, stripping the shirt in the middle of the street. Try to see the clip of North students know, fighting is not the same as thugs, leading to "opponents" injuries both physically and mentally.
In the educational environment, the costumes between the North and South are also different. Boys in the South have traditionally wear long dresses every week and the North is barely wearing them. In fact, in the pursuit of students wearing long dresses there are also pretexts of managers in the education sector. When wearing a long dress, on one side will cause inconvenience when operating strong, on the other hand they must also be aware that they are Vietnamese girls, should keep the gentle look, the right age. Therefore, the girls are afraid when every intention to fight with you for fear of tarnishing the white shirt, as well as his dignity. This alone has partly mitigated the temporary frenzy, the unusual actions of students.
In school and in society, students in the South often call "her", "aunt", "uncle", "uncle" with "children", very intimate, emotional like family members. . Therefore, there is no reason to push the conflicts that cause the feelings are chipped.
Northerners often speak very well, solemn but southerners are more courteous and soulful. In everyday life, the South expresses affection in a sincere way, not hidden as the Central people or flute as the North. Go to a family in the South where they meet a meal, they will be invited openly: "Have eaten yet? although that may be a dainty platter. That does not make guests hesitate. So the relationship is linked by openness, comfort.
Southerners live simply so everything is airy and pleasant. They do not pay attention to each other, manage each other, peek deeply into the privacy of others. They are willing to ignore all the hardships to discover and enjoy life, so things are always fresh. As for the North, they live in complexity and often become fake lifestyles. In the way of communication, may be in front of others they polite, but polite behind their back cursing. They always try to fight while they themselves want to rebellion. That way of life leads to inferiority and psychological stress. Enigmatic life and harsh climate also contributed to the temperament of the North people, the cultural behavior worse than the South. THICH CHAN TANH.AUSTRALIA,SYDNEY.18/10/2018.
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