"Count your life with a smile, not with tears. When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, let life show you a thousand reasons to laugh. "

The story is that, in the past there was a layman who cultivated the Dao for many years without getting the result, the family was so inferior, the newborn weeks had given birth to a son. The couple loved children, but by the time he was seven years old, the boy became seriously ill and died. The old man was so in love with me, that we should cry aloud, die alive. 

Relatives in the house advised to retreat, finally he quieted somewhat. He thought, we weeping like this is useless, just to meet the Pluto begged him to return the child for me. Then he left his family to go, dive thousands of miles through the hardships ... Accidentally he met the monk is traveling, took the situation told the monk heard the monk heard the monk said:

- The place where King Yung ran the capital was not a place where people could come, but now I see the love scene, I will show him the way. About 500 miles east of a village, you go there until the full moon day of July (day of the crime). At that time, the male may have met the Pluto.

The old man was happy to hear, trying to walk east. 

On the full moon day of July, the layman who follows the instructions of the monk said he certainly met the King. He immediately told the King to return his children.

The layman returned to Pluto, pledging to return his son to him. 

King Yusuke finished, said:

- Okay! Your son is playing in the Garden of the Phoenix, you go to meet him.

The old man rushed to the Garden of Eden to see his son playing with the other children. He ran to the side, hugging his son and complaining:

- Baby, come back to me. Parents day and night remember children, eat not delicious, sleep restless ... Do you know or not?

The child did not care about anything, coldly said:

- Old man, why do not you understand why? 'Human impermanence', I made his son is only a fate. Come on, now I have parents here.

So the old man stood still, the pain as cut that can not be uttered, his heart as broken into pieces ... A moment later, he could not suppress the pain suddenly burst into tears. The old man walked away ...

"We have to find the Buddha to ask for clarity," he went to see the Buddha said.

The Buddha finished listening, said: 

- Old man! The person who has died, then the original god will turn samsara life into another life, the coast of this life has been. So whether it is father, mother, wife, husband, children or friends ... are due to human resources that work, this is all fate. Humans to the human space are just as guests, when all the coasts of each person a place, there is something so attached or so miserable?

The old man heard, woke up to worship the Blessed One, said:

- Lord, please let me follow you. 

The Buddha said:

- Good ear! Good ear!

He lay down his hair, dressed in saffron robes ... taking refuge in the Dharma.

Humans to the human space are just as guests, when all the coast of each person a place. 

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Buddha taught: "He is because of love life." In fact, human beings are asked who is not in this "Love" that exists? Ever since the birth of the birth to humanity, thanks to a part of the father's humiliation, oxygen, the body was covered in the mother's womb nine months to ten new birth. It can be said: "Grace as high as the mountain, meaning mother as spring source."  

The love of the parents for the children and the opposite of the children's feelings for parents is so sacred, how can forget it in a moment. Naturally, 'Birth - Aging - Disease - Death' is the norm of creation. Life is often not like what, what will come, what goes is also going, go and go is also fate. However, to understand the fate, it is necessary to know the cause and effect, want to know the cause of the cause must be removed from the situation. That's the high level! 

There is the saying, "Count your life with a smile, not with tears. When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, let life show you a thousand reasons to laugh. " 

Let go is to let go .END=NAM MO SKAKYAMUNI BUDDHA.( 3 TIMES ).VIETNAMESE TRANSLATE ENGLISH BY=THICH CHAN TANH.THE MIND OF ENLIGHTENMENT.VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST NUN=GOLDEN LOTUS MONASTERY=AUSTRALIA,SYDNEY.30/7/2018.