Let's live  to be myself.

I.  INTRODUCTION 

Usually when the  living , never  we  also decent,  polite ,  courteous ,  temperate than when in the room  alone . It's habit,  the habit  of every  man , living under the  circumstances , be  circumstances  dominant  inside lead to another with the surface, life is not really yourself. 

If protection depending on the  circumstances  to apply for  appropriate , this is only  acceptable  when  we  have identified the subject "What is yourself," then calculated  depending on the  new sense. If not so, they shall be  perverted , entrained in many  circumstances  and everything outside, lose yourself. There are many  actors  said they have played so many roles, do not have  time  to live his truth is so taken to the  state  no longer know  the truth  of how he is anymore. Life is  grown and there are countless  situations  difference , change. If you lose yourself, then live up to one day do not know  we  have to be  modified according to how much the face. And how many years will create a stream of bubbles disheveled,  messy , swirled,  obscuring ; dust  -covered space closed up  man , no longer  recognizes  himself as anyone. Since then life lost  direction , the source of everything  wrong ,  complexity ,  evil ,  suffering  with that.  

II. WHY  HUMAN  LIFE IS NOT YOURSELF? 

1 / Do  try disabilities  are not  honest  of  human 

In the ancient village  usually has  a general water well,  people  usually it to wash out, carrying water to his house to use. One fine morning dew morning sun would not, the other guy  enlist  early to get water for  the family . When draw water up,  accidentally  saw a shorts (knickers) do not know of anyone from the well swept under the bucket. Detect a lack of action  civilized  polite , do not know  to respect preserve  clean water and sanitation general, complain he  cursed  loudly . Second look it turned out his pants, he immediately fell silent, hide. 

Also a lack of action  carefully , do not  respect  the general, a  job  is not good. If someone else, I condemn  loudly . But if you do, then hide, do not dare to speak out. No one  speak ill  of him at all. Just few who dare to look straight and take  responsibility for their own good things yet to overcome and  corrected . Humansoften boast  to each other  about things  nice ,  innocent , noble. Meanwhile  the actual  life of  every day  , the scandal,  scruffy . Full cross cloned. Everyone has good and less good things, it is inevitable, where each  man . But if you know  honest  with my own weaknesses to  try to  modify , rising just as  nice  but ourselves and  the society  wants his or her heart  feel  bright , comfortable,  peaceful  immensely . If every  crooked , winding, ingenious, cunning to hide it just makes your cover vulnerable  inferiority ,  weakness , tormented by the  bad things  rot away is incubated for several days inside. The ancients used to say: "Mark who run away but nobody who turned his head." Buddha  taught two classes of noble people. One is never a foul, the two are said  apologetically ,  amend  mistakes . After the war, King  Tran Nhan Tong was  lenient ,  petal ,  forgiveness  for the  sinner  treason turned know. Everyone  in life  everybody  respected  people cherish know  shame ,  remorse ,  correct . If  we  boldly  faced with  the truth  to fix,  correct , good direction, everyone admired,  respected . How will my soul soothing,  peaceful . You try to strong, upright in every  mind lives; when in  alone  also  serious , decent,  pure  as when  faced  with the  people  will feel the  spirit of  his very strong,  wise  and confident. Now new  recognize the value  to live true to yourself, no  crooked  lie . 

2 / Do everything external attachment 

Habits  of  the majority of  people  we  are living according to  the form , extroverted,  Joneses  follow everything outside. See you wear a suit, I also want the model to be one of those suits you without knowing which model quickly  outdated , with  matching  with living standards  families  themselves, their economic or  allowed  or not? See the laptop, iphone, ipad, the new heart hangover and attempting bought for it, where to go and show off his footsteps as the next without knowing their job demands such need not . So that the new demand, loosening old, never-ending, new life is everything tied columns, forced herself to  laboriously  run , despite all  wrong ,  mistakes . Most of the ills  societyare due  Joneses , lack of  judgment , which has lost its place. When too important external things often take it as  pride , forming a coating boasted to  society ,  cover up  the truth  of her. One Life to give too many things outside  the dominant , not his master, how, for what it's for his own life be? 

Try to look at yourself will see very clearly. For example  a certain day,  the family cut the internet, not network. Power outage, the phone runs out of battery, no television. There is  work to be  awake  from 5am. No noodles every day, only breakfast with cold rice with soybean yesterday. Maybe the young people  we  will not find  comfortable  at all. In the old days your grandparents dreamed of how to get white rice is eaten with salt and chilli  feel  good you  immensely . You  wake up  from 4 pm to go to potatoes, farming. And no phone, TV or internet thing, but my grandparents still live well. Today only a little bit lack of  amenities  that  peopleunbearable. In ancient times  people  have time to walk from South to North. To train cramped, crowded together, sometimes only a foot stand, but  humans  still  exist  and  maintain  living  being. Today ride must choose class. Boarding the ship, they must choose very quiet place. Go aircraft carrier to go  popular , new VIP seat please ... Do not know himself at everything of  the era  were tinted to  people  we no longer are themselves again. Not  our  ancient ceremonious the needle, but if the people really do not lose yourself, know yourself, life's  circumstances  do well to live well, not  uptight , demanding everything outside an  outrageous , like new initiative, vigorous. 

Across the river bank is an oasis. It is rumored that there are several things the  extraordinary ,  compete  psychic ,  divination  very good, knows all about  the past ,  the future , a foundation  of civilization  modern ...  People are  curious , no  judgment , despite  consuming ,  spent  a considerable amount to be to  discover the  special  extraordinary  there. He went to see a  truth absolutely  opposed to the word  rumor , nothing  special . Eat well, sleep well, also busy,  strenuous , deflicted, not even  freedom  where comfortable as  home  his. May  initiallyexplored  a little bit strange thing, but when the heart  curiosity  off, imagine the  excesses  no longer, pay restitution to  human  flesh  ordinary  is its new see everything  achieved  only other is  attractive temporary ,  not the  decision anything, not going anywhere. But due to trot  believe  rumors of  the galaxy , has missed the  money  amount is too large, sold out  a fortune  to get to the other side. If  telling the truth  inside was nothing  special  , it will be  everyone despised ,  ridiculed . To  protect  the ego ,  obscuring  superficial  mistakes  so they have their own  reluctance to  lie , automakers seem to  matter ,  praised  to the skies. So this person to the other mouth forming a wave, movement wrong  facts , deceiving each other. How many places, so many people, many fields like making  people  we  do not even  recognize  themselves as  anything else . Those who lack confidence in themselves, to live according to the words float  rumors nonsense often brings unpredictable threats. 

Usually when you see something of foreign countries,  people  immediately for that you need not know the quality of how it is. See someone go abroad for it to be  chic  , not knowing  the truth  of their lives be easy,  nice  as I thought or not. Listen to an  ideology  or background  culture  of instant Foreign  favored , fascinated follow soon but did not  awake  thinking  view,  the fact  it's like, the result  ultimately  will go nowhere. Just like that,  people  lose themselves when such self-clear. Living according to  the form  outside,  dependent  external things but  never  really live with yourself. 

Initially , when it was eating a bowl of noodles, it  feels  very good, but if they eat long noodles  being boring . Someday see it abandon vermicelli noodle bowl, deal. Not so delicious bowl of pho noodle bowl, but by eating long noodles into bored to find pho is delicious and kept wondering  Joneses  under  movement pho that. If in turn, am always eat pho, the noodle will also sometimes bored and craving for noodles. Learning in Eastern Long day routine saw often, no longer feel the  value . When approaching  the cultural  West, losing his left,  Joneses follow. But do not know that, that's just a  state  on the reverse of the  soul  alone and not necessarily  the culture  or the West is  absolute . We  in the East  dabbled  according to the West, but the West now have  tendency to  studyEastern philosophy. Clearly  a  change up  , not because of the background  culture  we  are adopting is superlative. But  mistakes  of  people  today is to lose oneself to  dabble  in accordance, so caught up in what came forth inadequacies. On  fact , was not a  culture  other than a background  culture  all. Each background  culture  are  existing  or not yet, or things; or is or with  conditions without necessarily or in  circumstances  other. If  we  calm sanity, beyond all  ideas  to recognize, selectively, said  learning  the new force their  autonomy . No entrained by anything, not something outside  of assimilation  to have lost myself. 

No matter how right or wrong, not quality or quality,  we  are always looking for new things to  satisfy  properties  curious . Specifically people  often have  mood  expect  tomorrow as there is nothing new to? Because in the mood  to expect  so they saw nothing unusual, the mainland despite everything to work  as  moths to a  light , no time to  consider . Do not know  undue  not as the ancients once said: "A dirty old dog barking, small dogs barking all along. ' Or mood  dreamer , serendipitous how I won the lottery to get the money ... All this shows that the mood had no  competence  confident where his main ability, is his loss, chasing,  charter of things only in praying,  illusion , out of reach, do not know life is his own self. 

Each man makes an experiment for you will easily  recognize  this point. Most free time, you like to do? People, shopping, people, watching football, and the other to the town, resort, listening to music, watching movies, online gaming, on facebook, call someone, go out with friends ... All these sentences  Answer  it shows,  people  always depend on something outside to live, like a volleyball spike ape, just let go of this branch to branch to hold the other. Every spare bit is seen playing with, empty, find something that fills not know himself is nothing. See  we are  slaves  everything outside an  outrageous , not to live as themselves. 

3 / Do not  autonomy 

When experiencing sadness,  we  tell myself to myself not to be sad, but it also does not listen, sad sad keeps skin away. When encountering  circumstances  ie make yourself  angry  hit,  we  ordered their order to stop, not anger like that, but could not  immediately  stopped abruptly right ... The  negativity ,  greed , habits, accessibility bad place per  person  we  also  like  that. No one wants to have it all, but by no  autonomy  should be given to trump it, encroaching rape, cheat  sophisticated , put  people  in place  wrong ,  evil , suffering each other to create. Those who know that  deliberately  violated  also due  autonomy . If you do not know how to  tame , his mastery is difficult to  pass , can not live by yourself.

4 / Do not  recognize  yourself 

Lose yourself, attach everything outside is vulnerable to external things wrong use. There is no  confidence  in himself, extrovert sought would merely  slaves  to money,  fame ,  material . Do not do your own boss will not get  energy  autonomy, life  tortuous , no  honesty . The use of raw  material and  the outside to  hit the ball  for longer life much  worse . More realistic, use some  knowledge  to camouflage,  conceal  incompetence but do not dare to live true to yourself. There are many  reasons , but all of them by not  recognize  his own power so no  autonomy , no life is yourself. Just realize what  the truth  is his, the  mistakes other consumer naturally, to return  a life  to live  the truth  is its a  perfect . 

III. WHAT IS YOURSELF? 

Want to live to be myself, it  at least  first  need to  know, such as "What is your major?". If not identified the main subject is  life  without direction, life will lose  direction . 

Seeing his friend forcibly beating other people  brutally , A said: 

- He should not act as such, should have  tolerance  to help others new. 

Mr. B said: 

-  Tolerance , helping others is the  personality  of him. And I was different. I can not be him. I just want to hit him. I have to be myself. 

Mr. A said: 

- He could not get to act  evil  worse  then do yourself is. Yourself what is it  good honest  muscle. 

Mr. B said: 

- Good or bad only because  the concept  of each person only. That his actions are bad, but to me they think it should. 

Before a dead body,  we  have to act how they could not  identify . But for survivors, they would have  perceived  good and bad, good and evil ... therefore, good or bad, better or worse just because  the concept  of each  person . Was  conceived  , each person will have the right  concept  differently. Mark the other guys, that's Mr. A for evil, but to him, it is the action B  auspicious . Because it is only  the concept  and  we have a right  to think  his way. How do these two brothers to  recognize  themselves in the right way? Unidentified this,  ethical society  would be  chaos . If only stop on  the concept  relative  , the  man  would never have been driven to live  definitively ; when pleasure is compromise, while lacking  control  the  violence . Because of  the reason  that this  humanity powerful yet user-friendly way to  absolute , makes the world so much that even  misery .   

1 / Comments from the  heart  alone, charity itself is excellent 

At lack of  control , not  awake ,  we are  assaulted , beat murder,  conspiracy sinister harm someone I do not  prefer . Until the action  succeeded , gloating,  satisfied  as standard  already. Time  after  things  become  normal  again subsided. One evening after  finished the work, wash, rest, regardless  remembered  the last incident, his heart suddenly  felt the  flutter, irritability. It is the reflection of his heart  flutter , irritability  said  jobs  and act  up before  the other is evil. Conversely, when doing an action to help people,  and rescue . Whenever quietly recalls his or her heart  felt  joy . The main center  for the move  we  know practice  before moving  there is an excellent charity. When the quiet heart,  calm , his mind will reflect  the truth  of it. Anxiety , irritability or  joyful , happy light in my heart, that mentality every self  realized , can not deny what you are  found  to be. Based on this state of mind to  know they  live and act good or not good, not just  simply  be due to  the concept  of  social  outsiders. 

When the quiet heart, the  people  often  realize  many things, see the action  errors ,  omissions  before. If wait everything was over, finished new action  recognition  , the matter was  delayed , missed, then, how to heal up again? Want to be  perfect  , then  we  must  recognize  in time. Ie bringing about peace of heart placed just in time to make his  decision . Want that,  we  must  calmly , quietly pleased at all times, in all  circumstances , before acting, then  things  will not be confused, make mistakes, get  full ,  fulfilled . 

Having said that,  there are  some  individuals  so wicked heart,  conspiracy todestroy  others, finished  feel  very proud, gloating, they had no  remorse ,  guilty , how  to recognize  it is wrong? This is the heart of people miserable! German  Confucius  says:  "Africa  compassion  chi center,  non-goodness  wild".  Means, without  compassion  is not  human . Synonyms, as  humans  , who also have  compassion , there will be time  to think again . People  think again ,  realized early to  modify  the  lucky  extremely . Evildoers but gloating, no chance to  get out  immediately, one day they will  think again  and  realize . Because they are also  human . Already a  man  will have  compassion  think again  as many  people  , but later and  marginalized  them. 

Life is  no one suffering forever. But no one is happy forever without the sad, no one to forever without the palsy, healthy nobody without the disease forever weak, no one young forever without aging time, and no one lives forever without dying day. And he did a bad job but was gloating because they are  healthy , and money, and  power , and all the  conditions  favorable  cover , leaving them no chance of  getting out . The other was gloating with  conditions , is due  based on everything  favorable  to squash other others that have. If due to  the conditions that they would because  the conditions  that lost. Which means that when things  favorable  , the other no gloating pleased, proud and have no place there to  existanymore. When he returned a true human body, there are no pre-wrap of  talented prospects  cloaking  is  compassion  itself  out , every misdeed racing out to  tear the heart out of an aging body meager,  sick ,  weak ,  suffering  not know where to turn. By this time the new  realized  it was  belated ,  sorry  for the confusion  cloaking  very heavy, and leads to  suffering . The ancients said: 

"The money the bowl tri nãi post, 

Old sensation hybrid method  childhood  non ". 

That means: After the error then said  jobs  previously left. 

When old and new that is wrong at a young age. 

One sometimes by greed  motivated , seething anger because it  temporarilymakes  people  act the lack  of thinking . Until create  guilt  then his heart itself to cool, calm, new  recognition  of the previous  mistakes . Sometimes due to the superficial, ebullience of  youth  makes  people  act defiantly, saying more, promiscuity. By the time you get older,  mature , his mind becomes  calm , deep, will automatically  recognize  the  job  wrong of  the young  medium. Shows,  the mind  average, air conditioning,  cool , new deep reflect their actions objectively,  truthfully ,  accurately . If because of the  impact on  others as bad, the injured hate, celebrate angry, greedy ... or because the  conditions for  power , greedy winning,  authority ,  status , power ... to  decide  the issue , to take action, to live, it would be  wrong , that his  repentance ,  remorse ,  anguish  later. Because after the action then the  state  trite, injured hate ... from the other action will subside; the  conditions  such as the  strength , power ... no, it's time to pay back their hearts and bass. Now  everything  good or bad, good or bad in itself is reflected  honest  compassion  this silence. It will automatically  show up  in our hearts,  we will  see  very clearly, and must bear the  consequences ; Can not  lumpen ,  cunning  or ingenuity court rejected  honest  self-  heart  person. A son  everyday unruly  disloyalty how parents when their parents died suddenly, it will  repent and cry so much. If waiting for the mistake and then  identify , wait until the new or the old, it is too late,  missed the mistake , no chance  of correction . Expenses by Using quiet center of the time I finished, the  calm , deep of  old ageimmediately put into  position  before you act or do something, it would  wise , is not  wrong  to have  remorse ,  regret ,  grief  later. 

Thus,  based on  the quiet heart,  purity  reflect his  honesty  to  recognize  the action  we  do is good or evil sage. Live and misdeed will lead to  anxiety , torment,  turmoil , madness and suffering. Think and work, it will be good gentle  joy , joyful, noble. Being  smart  wise  direction choose life for yourselves and know yourself. Regardless of whether  in front  or behind,  everyone  you know, or do not realize that,  we  will always live  faithfully  true to herself. Choose direction live  peaceful ,  healthy  life to bring about a peaceful, confident, not  shame  to himself and  everyone . 

2 / It is my  inner  peace , beyond good and evil 

When you see the snake catch frog,  we  should address how to complete? If the snake frog rescue hungry, evil with snakes. But no, the snake frog will be very  painful , nor  fair . In life, as in the relationship  associated  between the members of the  family , friends,  the workplace , society ...,  we  often encounter many  cases  are not easy to handle. There are multi-dimensional things happen, not easy to choose a  direction  handle. Turkey has to  accept  a relatively  new  settlement  was. Shows, good and evil, good and bad no  escape  within  the relative  of the  earth . 

On  the relative  is still improving  better than  evil. But in  absolute  good and evil, it has yet to leave the center  oscillation . It is this  oscillation  makes  us  lose  energy , no power, so much heart wondering, is not stable, so shall also be the  sorrow  of life  dominates . There are people who live right, act right, but heard his heart still  flutters , not security. That's because not  recognize  yourself the  ultimate  truth ,  estate ,  wisdom ,  equanimity . While doing good, being good, but also located  within  relatively  oscillations  of good and evil, good and bad, so my heart is not  calm , not to  escape  the  dominant cause of suffering. Therefore,  doing good , avoid evil, do good, avoid evil, but his heart must  tranquility ,  chastity  , the new  calm  and stable. See, the  truth  itself not only on  how to live your heart beat but also good to be  pure  again. Key heart pure ,  motionless , not  being run  but still  lucid , know everything new unobstructed  real key  is her. 

For  the able  can handle is  perfect ,  absolutely  it is easy for  us to  choose a direction of  settlement . With  the situation  is not one-dimensional, nature  relative  , then  we  should use the mind  calm , really good to  customize the time, depending on the handling of  the relative . Thus, a  settlement  will be through love, to justice. Because the heart is not  pure , not  clean  and not really good is easy to  mistake  the use of  relatively  this. As is handled according to  the ego , emotions, according to the  impact on  others outside ... take action to  mistakes ,  disastrous . If  pure mind  will give  us a  capacity  of provinces and  intellectual clear ,  definitive , handling  of the  job definition. After processing work optimally in accordance with  the extent  of  relative  and then, the  capacity  of the province, will help sharpen your no  anxiety , no one  relative  in your life  govern anymore. That's how it was to live yourself. 

IV. DISASTERS CAUSED  WHEN LIFE IS NOT YOURSELF 

1 / Lack of confidence, always  restless , headache fear 

Like the  offense , the clock is always  hiding , fearing  people  who live how they lack  honesty , living with casings  lie  outside headache always afraid others  recognize  is  the truth  of themselves as well as Likewise. Therefore, always living in the  lives nớp  fear, lack of confidence, serious life, miserable. 

The ancients said: "Officers were helpless  affordable  is the experiment on human personality? Affordable , needy or not needy is because  circumstances . Scenes can be needy, but  ultimately  unable to make the bastard is man? Which ranks  macho  preserve  is the primary, though hundred times  broken  they still  blithely  not  worry . What  's cottage  is oriented  so evil , daphnia advise early afternoon  successor  interests. Therefore, the  distinction  between  macho  and  primary human  right is in misery that clear. " 

Many people often  rely on  such things as  health ,  wealth ,  authority  to make shells  conceal  the  mind  and  work  so evil , evil, camouflage for his life. When things are  favorable , they often use it as a  strength . Early afternoon in spite  of good and evil , right and wrong, just know rely on  force  to daphnia stratagem, profiteering  individuals , just imagine the victory,  peace ,  success . So  when things are no longer  favorable , they fall into the same miserable day  anxiety ,  loss of appetite , restless sleep because life camouflage  false , because the lack of action  to consider  their own. Now know, I just live long external things, there is nothing to be myself at all. When  faced  with a measure of dignity  human , they will suffer, helpless. If the level is  macho , straight, middle district, it is his own life, even with hundreds of failed attempts,  unjustly ,  broken ; though  life  has  bestowed  gifts  nasty incidents to  challenge  any way, they still  calmly , confident,  peaceful , no  worries . Some people do suffer scabies, though disguised by the perfume, the top floor where the door wide in any way they kept itch itch, do not  conceal  it. If untreated, it is well healed  underground  still  feel peace  immensely . Heart was  honest ,  pure , noble, it is also in place  achievements , not by themselves be good in this place that comes and there is not  good . Shows, who live  righteous lives really be yourself is in on  the situation always happily,  benefits . The living are  so evil ,  false , camouflage is not solid and always tormented,  insecure . 

2 /  Tai harmful  unintended 

When not  recognize  himself, living outside, any  mistakes  from there to here. There are many children  originally  gaming as a  hobby usual  childish. Long day drunk, living in the  world  virtual, forget all  present  around , just know  their joys and sorrows , celebrate his anger on the game. Until  a moment lost all rights  to control  of  himself , no longer  know what  is and is living like that any more, began carrying the disease, hospitalization, thanks to the  intervention  of medicine and  doctors . From a person who is  normal , just by forgetting yourself, live the  illusion  outside to have  become  a patient  's heart  is god really  unjust . And yet, there are so many people addicted to the game, which led to the daring act nearly  as not  to count people. 

Sometimes it  frees  up the website wants  social  chat. It looks as if it was just a way of  visiting  or talking  crap to help sad, or  study for  something useful. Does anyone suppose,  once in  chasing  new things, right and wrong,  happiness and sadness  on it. Until  one day absence is unbearable internet, new  know you  've  become a  facebook addict  self in  yet unknown. This is due not to live by yourself which direction according to external expectations, leading to  disastrous  living in the  world  illusion , extravagant  excesses , even with the action not of a  man awake , start crazy disorder,  harm  unpredictable. These  phenomena  are now  spread  beyond  the social  causes many  families to fall into the  situation pitiable. 

The birthplace of high technology such as iphone, ipad, or all sites  society  those in  the West  such as the US ... But these young people here have  to realize  that everything is just  illusion , living in  illusion ,  not really  should have been  boring,  despised , no longer  enjoy  the things on the internet anymore. They began to  return  to life  actual life; gardening, weeding, rated beds, plant vegetables. They  realize  people  around are the  people  truly they are  exposed ; vegetable garden beds are the things they  enjoy  it, feel  clear . They no longer eat cake drawing things on the network. Life itself  practice  this brings them joy  peace , harmony, comfortable really. Meanwhile  we  are fascinated again,  deeply , passionately,  frantically  chasing  what  the image  that the people who produced it had gone, no longer  interested  anymore. See, I was being  unconscious , astray,  lost  an  outrageous . If such  reverie ,  we  will not be able to  accept  or imagine the  confusion  of the  self  alone. 

Also due  Joneses , lack of  judgment  , so there is not a moment few people  become  addicted addict,  drugs , torment relatives,  become  vices  society  and  ultimately  put themselves  life  into the dying his  death wear  a silly way. It was only a few  documented  case, between this world there are countless  harm  by losing his life can not mention them all. Meditation, looking to see the startled thorough! 

3 / loss is the root of all his  suffering 

Greatest suffering of  people  are losing  freedom . As a member of a  family  is too strict, lack of  empathy  shared among  people  together , not  respect  each other, always be  dependent , had no right to  a minimum  of yourself. That would bring to life stifling, difficulty breathing; also suffering. One country was  enslaved , people will fall into  misery , unable to control himself; also suffering. Everything does not have to prepare for thoughtful, touching anything and have to go through to the other person, not proactive; also suffering. When life  depends  on external things like money, fame ..., will lose  self-control ; also suffering. Life  is still there are so many things suffering  similar  like that, but all stem from  causes  not  autonomy , their loss. Until the  big suffering  chronic ,  persistent  in Samsara  birth and death  as well as confusion, do not  realize  the  truth  that out yourself. In short ,  forget yourself , do not run, do not live to be myself be born any  mistakes ,  suffering . See,  the value of  his own life is great to know how much!

V. Let Live By the  his ability 

When I was in school, see friends, I can claim nothing parents to buy for it. You see the fashion show,  dabbled  in accordance with  routine life  dissipated  to appear fashionable ... I also tried to find ways  Joneses  to keep up with  their peers , not hard  to study . Being  calm , said  thinking right  will not like. By remaining seated on the school, everything must rely on  family , not to do anything on their own  money  , so nothing is his all. Use one of the others to fill up for the kind of  hedonistic  luxury  that his supposedly trendy, generous, swell it? It's just a sham,  taking advantage of  the labor of others rather than his own self. If any bearing  ideological  leaning on others to live, get the other people how long their work will gradually  become  a  habit , do not know take care of himself. Do not worry about learning, not knowing  independence , not striving itself, the latter can not stand by itself sometimes  true  yourself. An elderly parents tomorrow,  wealth  is no longer, I do not stand firm,  becoming  a  passive , helpless, useless before the lives of friends  accomplished . Lang  thang head downtown street,  people  see forever bored well, sure no one heard. The so-called  elite , generous,  heroic postures of  students , this time just a  mirage , memories, not brought to  use both on target. Now it  knew  was  wrong . Everything  late , how can we return to the  childhood  to  amend  again? It is  harmful  because it does not know take care of himself, does not know his own direction in life. 

Still have  the same class peers, but always  serious , casual, hard  study  to guide its future. If friends have mini caricatures  weakness , do not know how to live according to her trendy, you also never been  dominated , reeled in by the way of thinking  wrong ,  the lifestyle  is not a  student . By his  students , his own self do not get money out  of wealth  at all. Life  now entirely  thanks to my parents, so  weak  with the game  playboy  naughty must. By what is his already Where swell with trendy? Duties,  responsibilities and strengths at the moment is  trying  hard  to study ,  train  yourself , prepare yourself for a future in the  capacity of her ... Seeing myself really like, there will be a  lifestyle  right good ,  positive , resulting in  achievement  of future studies and their lives. Twenty years later  became  a  successful , sedentary and no shortage of people to  visit , share. Everything now is his new work, the main ones by his life,  while also helping a lot more people, many aspects of the  community ,  society . Not funny  like generous than the  illusion  of a child or what? 

In a  family  wealth  and that, only one boy, parents loved you. This heritage house to spend my life nor my life before. However , the father is not easy to calculate. By the age of  maturity , he told his son had to go to make money by the  capacity of his brought him to see. If awarded, the new  fortune  for, or else he will add to  the fund  philanthropic  society  , not give him even a contract. Dasher is a familiar rich only spend money, but enjoy  never  thought of  having to  labor making  money  ever. Seeing the  confused , the mother secretly took some money and told me temporarily to another city, renting a place to live in luxury resorts and rest there for a  time , then take this money brings about exchange dad. As told his mother, a month after her son brought home three million awarded to dad and say they are beginning their lives just wages earned. Immediately, the father took the money thrown into the fire, the group of mothers stopped while the boy remained  indifferent  watched. Because that kind of money is not enough for him to use at a party. The father  smiled  and said, this is not  the money of  the hand-made child. So the other day  determined to  hit the road ,  trying to  find a job on their own how employees view considered. Then the company also admitted to work. Date night  hardy ,  hard throughout the month, he received two million  coins  paid by the  sweat tears  brought her father offered. He took just about to announce torn into two, spry he recoiled. Looking at his face,  sharp mind and act sons, fathers are  moved  to the  maturity of their children and awarded  the entire  fortune  for him  to manage . 

Currencies  labor from  true , since it is the  effort  made her always have  value , have  meaning  and  we  appreciate the new,  using the correct place. If not himself experienced great hardship and suffering to know  the value of  the material there from  sweat tears  of others how they would spend son bluff. Assets have multiplied his parents are also not enough for him to use in places where evil, naughty and  eventually  killed himself his life. Talking  asset  for a  man  like that is given  disaster  for themselves. A father teaches his son skillfully know  realize  the value of  the currency  to later  manage  the property  in a way that  effectively , will bring  benefits  to the lives of boys and  everyone . Value  is only for those who live by themselves striving effort of their own; not  abusing  or rely on  forces  outside the new smell.

There the children due to the lack  of thinking , the parents put  utmost  to care for and still not  satisfied , always blame the parents,  at home  this family insomuch that I could this. Why not think I have done anything for her parents, the  society , which requires parents or  society  to do for yourself? It is not known due to the ability to live by your own, do not know themselves strive to be led to  think  and act  negatively . Because of this,  people  become  passive , petty, always think  people should do for yourself without themselves making a good for nothing at all. Parents can not afford to let forever, and no one in this world born to feed anyone. When misunderstood, his main concern was not for himself, it will be the day to get yourself in dead end with no way out. People like the parents have for many  assets  they do not see enough. They will spend  money  with impunity,  recovery times  come to the wicked, evil,  evil . It is  harmful  because it does not know how to live by the  ability  of his. 

Coincidentally  met a  wealthy , have  status  in  society ,  we  think: "I have nothing to ask for help they?"; or  interested in  asking: "What can I help you?". Sincerely  looking back her heart, knew  we  had to be the son in  the story above or says! 

Some students have  circumstances  families  are not much better off. Casuallyfellow giants are invited to go to an area known as the  paradise  of earth for recreation. She  thought , if you live by yourself, do not rely on others, never himself learned  sense  of how that place. And going out, it has relied on others. I would rather not have to be yourself, but get  the feeling  that still more fun. So okay? 

The poor themselves, on their own and can not afford to rely on the guy hitters can reach the place  paradise  on earth does. I know how the other guy also self-  aware  of that. When  accepting  outings means  acceptable  under the  thinking that. Synonymous has lost personality, qualities and put himself in  classabjection, live posts, in thanks, of subordinate  status ,  money . With her  present, he will not be  necessary . And because he is who is  gifted , so when pleasure is  given  an outing; sad moment, not like they tossed away, do not  mourn , nor bother  to notice  what to do. An outing like that to be happy to be back? Youth her grandparents  old , begging people would rather  starve  than ever of those who received no  respect , not properly. Currently  less popular hunger, but things are not going to receive a  respect ,  dignity  overlooked her,  cheapness  that the class is it? 

Conversely, by what  family  they have been,  we are  trying to study , hone their skills, no matter what  dissipated  temporarily  there. After graduating with a degree in this  university  with honors, has  the capacity ,  the main medium , diligent,  hardworking . Meanwhile, the other giants who have to find and felt his energy to work for them. Looking back on how many people life  assets  bulky, but not  finding  talent  ethics  to  management , working. We  have enough qualities  moral ,  intellectual ,  capacity  they will need myself. The currency  can not afford the quality and  value of your moment. Do not lose  dignity , though poor, but  still has its own strengths. This time they are  respected , they need me, but do not rely, in posts as it once was. Life is so  unhappy  and nobler like stars? 

But singing is not good, but the song itself will  feel  like fun  than listening to others sing. Simple gift, as only a manually attach paper cranes six tinkering boy folded, but will be a most precious gift in his mother's birthday. Live by  the capacity  of the main hone itself, life has always had  the taste , high bar,  enjoy the fun more than  one time  outside not  plausible . 

Live is itself a noble way, not attachment,  bigotry  on the  achievements themselves  achieve , think about lofty things, the great ... That would  constitute self, prone to  symptoms  like those Wholesale disease. This will be an  obstacle in my life, easily lose yourself in a different direction then taken to  mistakes , suffering. It's just that  we  are not  proud  or vain on the  achievement ; without  bigotry , attachment, immersed in shallow narrow places,  despicable ,  dark ,  selfish , petty, petty ... then  naturally  become  a truly noble life is yourself; circulation ,  spontaneous ,  generous ,  benefits , happily.

Everyday  healthy  new  lean on  a lot of things outside; divided fleshy, sweet sharing,  love  to help each other. Lying until then everything outside are  meaningless , powerless. The horizontal left,  harshly  of  life  is like. Now is not  necessary  then to  allow us to  help each other be. Until then, you should not want to help can do something more. Yes  cherish  each other as much as you can not bear instead of the  pain  her this time. High door wide,  possessions pressure for,  overflowing , but not life saving  fragile . Major civil  rights rank , nor  sheltered , living in his own place is. At this time, only  the capacity  of the  truth  ourselves, can  rescue is yourself. If the truth got myself  honest ,  everydaylife, the Lord will have the power itself, the provinces and  lucid . The pain of  physical  illness  does not make  the capacity  of this pain. In the morning horizon knew  estate  , the  shadow of  suffering  of the  interior  is no longer. The province the power key,  wise  this gives us an ability to stabilize the province bright, no ripple bit  shocked , fear nothing. Not to wait for the disease to live,  to die , but death is the disease that everyone fears, so take it to measure  the capacity  of their lives. When life is his own true,  complete ,  we  will get power to the provinces, joyful,  optimistic  in every moment, everything leads to  success  in life. At sick, unfortunate encounter, or stand on the threshold  of death ,  capability helps  us  neutralize, not  dominate  to themselves to pain, fear, anguish ... Life is like a new feel  benefit  to learn to live  fully  by the very  truth  his place. 

FOR. HOW TO BE YOURSELF IS LIFE? 

1 / Less  desire , always know enough 

In life,  we  should  honestly  look back to  know  is, how capable are. Recognizing the like will know enough to know what content to have the ability and strive in  fact  his, not expectation or  illusion  an  outrageous . People know enough is situated  underground  and  feel  peaceful ,  happy . If you always take the bridge,  illusion  , there is  the sky  , the night also  anxiety ,  restlessness . 

Today someone give her a gift,  we  respect  but not as important. The next day they reclaim, or missed lose, I still  normal . Yes and no similarity. By  traditionally without it I would not ever die. Anyone else a lack of it without dying, then  we are not important, do not need. In life,  we  have the right to strive for the best possible, but should not put everything in place so important. Wise , strong,  decisive , bravery to live like they do not have any one else outside can  dazzle his torment was, will return the  autonomy  the truth  is his. 

2 /  Recognizing  the value of  truth  itself is greater than all 

Greatest suffering of  man  is not overcome by  themselves , lose themselves,  dependent  everything outside. Want to win yourself, not for anything outside  the dominant ,  we  need to  recognize  a  valuable legs  around greater things are. Having mastered the new world  surroundings , new life is yourself. 

When the throbbing heart,  frantic , hurried lives, there is no internal force, not  autonomy . Meet  conditioned upon  the cheerful, working under, by any  tricks  to take on alone. Meet unwanted conversation enraged against yourselves, do not  restrain  it. See item the street  like that , but not enough money so they have to stop. Also not to let go,  pacing , hang around a ring and also to place it again. A look back all the way and bought for it ... It was dropped lose  autonomy  of  man , is missing his own, was  the external environment  outside  dominant . Greed , anger, intrigue, guilt ... because that is the origin of this. From here astray, missing steps, suffering  persistent ,  crushing , loss of  self-control , is no longer a life of his own anymore.

In all  circumstances , if the always calm sanity, about the heart, a long time  to become  a habit  and will feel the  capacity  of the province, where breakfast, light of my heart peace. Now new feel  worth  living is  paramount , everything outside became  normal , no longer  physically attractive  or  dominant  again. Once you have this life and then  customize the use very  flexible ,  successful . With the  era  of civilization ,  we have enough  capacity  and  wisdom  to promote the good. If met, the unfavorable situation remains calm your mind,  equanimity . It's people who live by themselves,  self  really. There is no one else outside  enough to dominate  their cause lost, astray  astray  to have innocently suffering,  unjust anymore. 

VII. CONCLUDE 

A quiet moment,  we  have felt the  peace  and joy of  spontaneity  incredible. Always much less live with yourself, the provincial regulations,  wisdom  and  peace  will be immeasurable, indescribable before. Steeped in a  value  such great, no room for anything outside come in. When lived to be myself then  customize the time ,  depending on the coast  to live, so  depending upon  on every job, but full of  wisdom , enough  energy  autonomy , steeped happily, then what can  the dominant  cause  we  have  mistakes  or  suffering  anymore? Now feel all  values  "to live as yourself". END=NAM MO CAKYA MOUNI BUDDHA.( 3 TIMES ).VIETNAMESE TRANSLATE ENGLISH BY=THICH CHAN TANH.THE MIND OF ENLIGHTENMENT.VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST NUN=GOLDEN LOTUS MONASTERY=AUSTRALIA,SYDNEY.28/2/2017.