Dharma said taking part is the root of suffering, we want to solve the problem of suffering, the first to start from "know".

The needs of the people there are two:

1. the demand .

2. desire.

Even when excessive desires his needs then called "join". But people often don't know how much, and also difficult to distinguish the difference between needs and wishes clear should always feel lack.

Actually, it is not difficult to discern needs and desires. The thirsty to drink water; This is the "demand". But refreshing drink we just drink a glass of it, as if the precautions needed to at any time, to storage two, three cups, then this is like psychological parenting to about old, rice area in the room when hungry; This is taking part, the current problems are resolved before the primary needs. Also following this need something? There must needs have more like that? Because there is no way that anticipate everything, so no need to think.

People eat and drink deprivation cannot sustain life. Men and women do not copulate did not remain the same because the breed was life. The Chinese say: "love to eat is human nature". We can find something to eat, the relations of men and women is often the human love story, may be said to be the cause of the bad people find excessive demand, soak up the material so there is no way to save ourselves, like passionate friendship, or love to play Zhuo buried; these things are all because of that negativity himself himself, also said: "people are killed for the money Member, birds dying to eat". Of course, if we have real interests, and its capacity could reach targets as well, not nothing. But if we work shoulder ham so he would himself a lot of trouble.

In addition to basic survival needs, people still love to see beautiful scenery, listen to music or; in General, the desire to see, hear a lot of people also is. So people enjoy beautiful scenes and music is instinctive reaction, no need to evade it. Pretty flowers, ornamental trees in the Park to let people enjoy looking at, it's natural eyes, just that we admire the beautiful scene enjoyment. What about the music, if we listen to his favorite music, then of course listen intently; This is also a way of enjoyment.

But if we see beautiful flowers, who would like to start instant break United brought back home; It's the taking part. The music also, if listening to music that captivated forget yourself, quit jobs that immersed in it; or listening to music, or that infatuation into music, as enjoy more sunken, needs love to hear more and more, so don't stop running by desire, repossessed, then that is taking part. Thus, the pursuit of quality of life pretty good which is typically human affection; But if the turn into the front will bring to many disputes troubling the brain.

Lust and love which nothing was bad, but the desire is often taken to the greed of people. When desire, love, and the same run then turns into negativity. But taking part must also distinguish the level of good bad, just as love can be a dedication, and desire can also be hope. Hope for themselves and the world better and more beautiful, more civilized progress. This is turning into a center of education, and the craving, turn into expectations. So craving sex and can also switch directions develop positive work, dedication to the society. END=NAM MO CAKYA MOUNI BUDDHA.( 3 TIMES ).VIETNAMESE TRANSLATE ENGLISH BY=THICH CHAN TANH.THE MIND OF ENLIGHTENMENT.WORLD VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST ORDER=VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST NUN=GOLDEN LOTUS MONATERY=AUSTRALIA,SYDNEY.27/8/2016.MHDT.