Sunday, September 28, 2014
I Want to Be Happy Tu patience and equanimity Compassionate
Buddha, want peace in this life we have to learn:
patience and compassion amnesty, told the world that is tolerant, forgiving and
fun. Our
Master used to say he did not have immediate enemies, only friends who have
empathy and sympathy for each other not only.
If you want to transform anger and achieve the results
you want, the first thing that we must practice patience and obvious
observation, all men are my father, and all the women my mother. We live through each birth
parents gave birth to me and He did not mind hard work to foster student
success.
If we so often contemplative, we will see them in the six road reincarnation are all dad my mom all. Therefore, when parents understand the grace, we will remove greed, anger and delusion that easily empathize and forgive each other. Thus, we and who are living together in the true heart of love, that give the glass on the bottom and are living happily through discussion with others. Beings in the three realms of samsara, six lines, due to our karmic dominant worked parents, siblings and relatives together.
well that's why we have to learn to live to love and help each other mutual assistance, by all those who have favor with her. Thanks to contemplate all beings as parents for generations, so it is easily understood, that live together in a loving heart and understanding.
about us stars, from early morning until evening, everyone met adversity the coast is angry, angry even fish guillotine cutting, not where the story started pouring up our family. It's ingrained habits of many people, if we do not know the practice of love, compassion, sympathetic joy, discharge, the family will break easily broken.
And a more consistent approach that is consistent love, seeing people thought that their loved one was injured, it was not so angry, angry that they were not injured. Love is not selfish love, which is love, regardless of skin color, blood, race. If anyone has ever had a child and stepchildren together, they will know that there is love selfish or not? As always we also see his son still more, so we sometimes discrimination that narrow rasp together. Quan's love will help us expand the compassionate heart of equality, but that sympathy and love one another with the people in your life.
Often we have disabilities or require, most beautiful women since his , his cute country should be doing next, do whatever they want. Ladies waist or make her angry, makes policy for bullying from men.
way transform anger when something makes me angry, I just whispering in her mouth is mad stupid, not angry is wise and thus keep going up, repeatedly. This is a method by which the student is often used to overcome anger, while the new temple every story having religious grievances. This method is simple but very effective, especially for people with a temper, or to take his anger overwhelms. In the face of mistakes or errors of others, we tend to criticize, angry and made a big deal out. When we see calm remorse, regret but was too late.
deep breathing is the key to help us calm clear to see that clearly state, inner feelings. The controlling body will help us push back the anger, not like that. In fact, when the student practice this exercise, the lungs will receive a large amount of oxygen, and then quickly spread throughout the body. Quiet time between when you are angry until you complete this exercise will help you regain calm, so calm the mind should know how to transform anger and stop. Anytime you have your stress and temper going, try watching practice this exercise. Our own, here are exercises that I can practice every day, it gives me a sense of peace, relaxation, and help me regain equilibrium to have a comprehensive view, decision- position myself in life.
temper is something ingrained habits, negativity of the oldest fundamental, deeply rooted undergo from countless lifetimes. We present in life, in life and death also propelled by greed, hatred and delusion are three things, which causes vicious in six sugar three realms. Habitual anger almost everyone, including the Sages. So, when confronted with things that are not satisfied as attention, often angry, angry flames rising high flame kindled. Although we attempt to subdue the anger in many forms, but can not stop the anger of a moment is.
Buddhism teaches we need to identify and transform anger attacks. When we are angry with someone, maybe it clear to the enemy that we are angry, not happy about it. I have the suffering of its own, so we need to present a sincere and honest and who is angry. Their anger because they do not make themselves pleasant, satisfied a certain problem. We need to specify the reasons for them to understand and empathize with me more. Or maybe because of our attachment to the mistakes of the past.
therefore we need to establish communication, poorly understood, thoroughly, to mutual understanding and forgiving each other. We should not nurture hatred contained inside the consciousness lasting hatred. It is not a wise attitude behavior of the true Buddhist.
know that I, as someone who has the attitude and actions made miserable by his anger, then first we have to know that the true recipe take the pain before. Therefore, we need to be more sympathetic pity, because they are ignorant dominant, so they act so childish. Maybe they have too much suffering and pain, because so long suppressed contains words should not be so nice.
seeds of anger hidden deep they always make our minds up to love them more is hate. Want to recognize the true nature of anger is not always easy. It's not inherently general picture, there is no place where, just the new situation arising charming touch. Want to disable anger outburst before it, the Buddha taught us to contemplate often, consider inward to're always aware of your individual mind.
said I must be aware of the heavy, bitter , evil only makes us and others to suffering. I have said before speaking wisely and do anything, to prevent harm to others. Just identify yourself well before you face your anger rise, the ability will no longer petulant outburst opportunities. I often reflect deep in his heart and everyone thoroughly. We need to get the mirror to your face when anger anger emerged. If you must see a demonic face shape, then what's ferocious will present the results of a life after that. Certainly, we will become ugly by the time such hatred. Recognizing this part also helps you somewhat less hatred, whence no one wants to be a man ugly as hell La Police?
summary, want to transform your anger effectively, we must cultivate virtues patience and practice can be applied to the following fundamental principles:
We must constantly mindful awareness by monitoring breath, breathing into her that breathing in and breathing out I know exhale.
Prior said or action, we should consider carefully whether it nature or anger?
Let regularly practice mindfulness extends loving kindness to everyone, everything. Open your heart to love, understanding and treat each other with compassion and forgiveness.
deep Let us reflect in the mind, clear seed to germinate anger if it will work for you and suffering. Therefore, we need to transform since in its infancy. Want to be full of patience, we need to have the materials, compassion, sympathetic joy, new exhaust, then transform life contradiction.
kindness can only come from true heart. From the center will become empty, meaningless, if it is only verbal theoretical. Only when we feel it with my heart love and understanding, then we will engage contributed tirelessly serving, boring for others benefit. Our life will be pointless to do okay when there is no heart, compassion, sympathetic joy and discharge.
If we live by the heart, the man so emotionally attached to privacy, a habit commonly for the woman. Parents and grandparents loved ones home with your children without any difficulty. The majority of the world who are doing well, except for a few people living in impersonal.
When Buddha talks about kindness, his affection mean there is no discrimination in the heart. Noble sentiments, we must require that everyone loves like a mother loves her only child. All of you who have children will know the difference when they love their children and other people like. And your child distinguish other people have emotional attachment to privacy. Even when we see a baby car fell, crying, naturally we will help your baby get up and start asking questions, comforting. Or see an old lady crossing the street without a goose, we went to help her through.
Having three states left from the center. The first is kindness. We must have kindness towards each other. If we do not have a good feel for each other, we will never be able to sit together. I will get up, go somewhere else to find ways shunned. Buddhism teaches us to lean on each other to preserve the life of this new from peasant farmers to industries other functions are dependent on each other. Because goodness is the essential condition of life, we can not be without it, without it life would be ruined, tasteless.
Secondly friendship emotional closeness friendly show, with some people as friends, neighbors, people who help us. The friendliness of our lives loving and caring to help each other, but not from the actual hearts. It makes us feel close and loving people, but that's just fancy heart. Cling to friends and relatives, who help us, then that attachment will make us nostalgic longing and suffering because they're afraid of losing. Therefore love is no longer clean. Because the attachment that made us lose heart from no integrity. Family love should be cultivated by heart knows no discrimination conditions. Because love our loved ones so easily reinforce their egos, to ensure survival.
Thirdly friendship is put to the cling, cling. I cling to fear losing their friends. My good friends because they always want to be my friend. But if they return not being treated well, I immediately thought about whether to continue to be friends with them or not. If they abandon us, we will be disappointed overflowing. I need to practice methods patiently and with determination.
Our heart should be trained to love because it does not have to be created to always overflowing love. It may be love, but also hate. It's filled with bad faith, greed, ignorance and fear, but if we do not reduce hatred and develop compassion by changing our behavior in everyday life, the mind is not Can peace be happy.
When we can do all the thoughts, words, his actions. I became more confident and not afraid of anything. I know I've been self-trained to the point will not be a reaction of anger, jealousy, however small will ever happen to make us lose the peace.
Everyone has the opportunity to modify the way his behavior with others. We're always in contact and exchange with others, and always will be people who disagree with us. Then if we are silent, do not bother answering, it is not the reaction of a crush on. Rather it only brings anger, frustration, anxiety, and leads to careless, cold. All that stuff is not useless and does not help us to be pure. Only when we can behave with a loving heart and understanding, then we truly find peace with yourself.
they have a lot to learn in this world, and perhaps the purpose of this world is that, for people to have the opportunity to further their training. Not that we seek comfort, money, wealth, property. Life is a school, this is the most important lesson, the lesson to help further our hearts because of the vastness of life.
's more we love immense, the more we can love more people, as well as many loving people. How much more you give, the more they do this much. Who is going to make more people love me, but do not want to bestow mercy for anyone. If you're giving love to others, it is they will find you. There is no shortage of people to love us. I am giving love to others not because we want to, not because they need to, not because they deserve to, but because my heart was wide open, with all the big heart and generosity.
While people have compassion has nothing to lose. If they have the advantage of being someone else, then it is also an opportunity for us to verify their practice for many years. Is an opportunity for us to enlighten yourself with the right action or not? Unconditional love is always empowered to people, not weakness. But if love coupled with passionate attachment, then that love will make people become greedy and selfish.
An additional benefit that when we get attention from the "fire, poison, can not hurt to us and after we will die in peace. " In the old days people used missiles, poison attacks mutual destruction is now no more that they use guns, atomic bombs, who have extensive heart of things this will not be harmed.
All All of us will eventually die. Minutes before their mortality is very important, because that's the moment of regeneration of a new life, who have no mercy when the going very nervous and scared not know where to go. Persons interested can anticipate from death to heart awareness, so they will definitely come to good wholesome. What do we do in the present with action good or bad it will follow me to the end of his life, dying moments. The bad or good habits will not change dramatically unless that person is outside had vast kindness, I will awake, not anxious fear, but heart filled with peace and happiness . When leaving only can we liberate yourself for the moment that everyone has to go alone.
balls when we share compassion for people, find help and time to heal and feel communion with the suffering of others.
Bi arises when we feel the pain, not like that of others in ourselves. Only so we really empathize with others. If not, we will live in the tribulation detached feel loved even though we still coldly indifferent. To see what the other people difficult, we can sympathize and share with them, because we know that hardly anyone was doing the whole thing like that.
Empathy and forgiveness is the first step leads to love true. Often we are sympathetic and share with our loved ones, like your friends, your colleagues, your religious and your neighbors as well as the choice of the self. This choice pushes people away from each other, and though they work out of this world, the spirit goes according to divide that keeps people will gobble up each other.
again only when we shed ourselves a thorough, fervor, sincerity, can we truly understand true love has no shadow of self. Buddha preached a clear sense of our nature. Our forms are different, but lucid mind, heart love everyone has. Because this ego that we have to protect yourself, your family and your country.
thoughts are always well-stocked by greedy, selfish ego because this ego, they always occur in every one. We constantly protect their egos. If someone looked at us with a friendly manner, or show no gratitude, no love is like we want, then we will generate hate hatred.
Sympathy and share an emotional production from the heart with understanding, no conditions at all. I do not need to wait for the return the favor, because I just love to help sentient beings have a heart. Because our life is a long chain of suffering, disease and death for elderly relatives, so our lives are hidden conflict, unsatisfactoriness, frustration, desire to have more, want not lost pain and everything cool ownership exist forever. Unfortunately for the people with equal love or sympathy for the pain of loss of others who are the real true happiness. Most of us lack the compassion, hard to find happiness everywhere. The compassionate life always have fun, because then we think less of his ego, so little ego. Whom the ego, can not have fun because they never satisfy his ego.
When we have compassion, then we will have to share that joy with others is called joy. In contrast to the joy jealousy, jealousy. Share with others the joy tonic miraculous healing jealousy, envy. Who caught this illness is because they do not know the joy of sharing with others. In this life we share that joy to others, then we will certainly have more opportunities to be happier.
sharing joy with others is one way to transform hatred resentment. It is not only a memory in certain circumstances, or when complications, but we must always remember them because that is the secret to living a life of happiness and peace. Buddha said: "I only teach one thing, life is suffering, and how the cessation of suffering." We must always remember that ego is the source of all suffering so fun when we get self in ourselves, we must try to share the fun for others to follow.
To gain equanimity not only determination want is an order in is enough. Determined to be necessary, but it is easy to lead to suppress the body and mind. The friend eventually our hearts an order in, one of the most noble sentiments. It is the opposite of anxiety, restlessness, clinging to the ego.
A calm or equanimity should come from within. When planted in good, equanimity is one of the seven factors of enlightenment entirely. But if we do not start practicing mind letting go now, it's time to do any new peace and happiness.
To gain equanimity, feel calm and soothing serenity we have to have stamina persistence in adversity every obstacle. If you do not accept, we will suffer the repression of their own. Opposite of acceptance is resistance, opposition, and do so only bring misery. People have been kindness, compassion, sympathetic joy, and then discharged to live a life of peace and happiness that is not encumbered something.
As the husband finds himself right, saw his wife's right, no one who concede into a quarrel altercation with each other forever. So there are two coffins await us. In life, we need each other to make concessions husband said his wife, the husband, the wife guilty party forgiveness ignore that patience and kindness, compassion, sympathetic joy and discharge.
, but if fasting together without have to forgive each other, trying to remember every bad habit of skeptical people are not conditioned to be. Today a little patience, but if tomorrow they met the pirates inner continental expansion. It's inveterate diseases or substances containing it inside. We must ignore always fast, not to mention remind nostalgic retreat, fasting should not be forgotten just repeating what other people do bad forever annoyed angrily up.
It is a fact, from personal life to family and society, never fully harmonize its sole discretion, do not require to be nice out. We must practice patience. Because lifetime habits of many people who are also available as anger, what he or she also gets angry before.
's why we must be careful patience with each other. Through patience we must petal, that is fun but do not give up do not give up artificially. Because we are nothing more than foolish, childish quarrels so new we do not know each other make concessions. I know they do not give out any more cravings anger. Do not even think I have, embracing each other harassment, see the next one to argue anymore, after all the suffering and still goes on.
From the initial fun, Bi's sufferings, Hy is fun, let go Discharge are not attaching any sense objects. Ban fun and cheerful sufferings ignoring forgive hostile resentment, sympathy suffering of other people called, compassion, sympathetic joy, discharge. The fun of people suffering from pain as pleasure herself, glancing celebrate the spirit of selfless suffering selfless compassion is immense. So when that help people who do not see themselves as grace, the grace that guys life. Now this really is true love. If there is a tiny spot because he is not a true love.
situation is not necessarily the mother loves her child compassion, because you do not immediately hear the angry mother. Love is love, compassion assimilation of people suffering as their fun. Sympathy of people suffering such fun, fun original start loving compassion sufferings. Desire for help to repay as bartering is not compassion. Love to satisfy their personal needs, is taking advantage of the love, compassion is not true.
Want arises vast compassion, we must practice empathy with the suffering people happy. Forums to see the suffering of the people as his enthusiastic zeal to help without conditions. People from their suffering is joy, there is a certain agendas to help his people. Seeing her happy and be happy, ones happy his glancing was ready to share with people, described by prize, supported by, and desires by helping share. We have to get her something fun to do something fun for everyone, the fun is the fun of her. Fun miserable with new love sincere.
because of sympathy over the suffering fun together, we will be enthusiastically positive scratched together sharing the joy of suffering. Sympathetic to the suffering of people happy, we started to apply compassion. However kindness, compassion, sympathetic joy, discharge is not limited to, new song of compassion, it comes from near and distant spread. We shared collective understanding of the suffering of family acquaintances, gradually spread to strangers outside.
When compassion was latent within us, then all the anger, delusion, greed, selfishness whereby the killing. The temper of compassion can not be unlawful to beat others. Fire fire burning pitch, compassion is when water dried up. Self-person encounter misery, human compassion could not bear to take his eyes also, need to find every way to the suffering people. If we can not possibility be rescued, heart still aches pain. Scenarios are personally afflicted her for the compassion that does not permit action language torment others.
compassionate person scramble beginning it was lost with losing than others. Because the guys are happy, who lost to pain, suffering vied for each other is doing. Compassion is a fun board sufferings. Humans have mercy is all humanness action wresting competition no more. His main help but bring out to others, can not grab people brought their own. Compassion is a surface showing the people in your life, indulge my inclinations of others. Annoy people is that they are suffering, compassion agreement is not contrary to the wishes of sentient beings.
present general information to put people on the spot for happily, is inversely compassion. This compassion just looks wicked, but tomorrow there will see clearly immense kindness of the people there. The show compassion needs to wise, far sighted to understand the mind of the people that are new to using adversity well. Whatever happiness upon happiness or adversity is a good resource for helping board. The essence of compassion is a cool gentle peace, so how everyone I met felt joy.
compassion we all expect perfection when no discrimination. As expected distinguished career mode chasing love with hate, bittersweet difficult to bring true love to all beings equally. When food was clean now, only a clear mind can wander equality embraces all human beings, regardless of who is the other one, I do have injuries arising hate making attachment. Living with this mind be enlightened creatures or objects with understanding hearts. Compassionate love is absolutely no attempt, more lost, get lost, just to see people suffer much help. Those evil satanic hatred, greed, jealousy having orange juice recipe compassionate hand kneeling rules are accepted goods. Compassion where there is suffering all melted away.
compassion as sweet as milk flow, such as compassion cool afternoon breeze collection, compassion bright as the full moon, compassion arises wanted thousands of merit such kindness fertile nurturing things. We respect those who love carrying the compassion, who praised praised the new found compassion, longing dreams who will learn compassion. Everyone we work to arouse compassion stream, to a flood of day, cooling the hot earth are by hatred, ignorance. Happiness in the human world, if yes, when water overflow compassion.END=VIETNAMESE TRANSLATE ENGLISH BY=THICH CHAN TANH.THE MIND OF ENLIGHTMENT.WORLD VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST ORDER=VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST NUN=GOLDEN LOTUS MONASTERY=THE EIGHTFOLD PATH.NAM MO SAKYA MUNI BUDDHA.( 3 TIMES ).AUSTRALIA,SYDNEY.28/9/2014.
If we so often contemplative, we will see them in the six road reincarnation are all dad my mom all. Therefore, when parents understand the grace, we will remove greed, anger and delusion that easily empathize and forgive each other. Thus, we and who are living together in the true heart of love, that give the glass on the bottom and are living happily through discussion with others. Beings in the three realms of samsara, six lines, due to our karmic dominant worked parents, siblings and relatives together.
well that's why we have to learn to live to love and help each other mutual assistance, by all those who have favor with her. Thanks to contemplate all beings as parents for generations, so it is easily understood, that live together in a loving heart and understanding.
about us stars, from early morning until evening, everyone met adversity the coast is angry, angry even fish guillotine cutting, not where the story started pouring up our family. It's ingrained habits of many people, if we do not know the practice of love, compassion, sympathetic joy, discharge, the family will break easily broken.
And a more consistent approach that is consistent love, seeing people thought that their loved one was injured, it was not so angry, angry that they were not injured. Love is not selfish love, which is love, regardless of skin color, blood, race. If anyone has ever had a child and stepchildren together, they will know that there is love selfish or not? As always we also see his son still more, so we sometimes discrimination that narrow rasp together. Quan's love will help us expand the compassionate heart of equality, but that sympathy and love one another with the people in your life.
Often we have disabilities or require, most beautiful women since his , his cute country should be doing next, do whatever they want. Ladies waist or make her angry, makes policy for bullying from men.
way transform anger when something makes me angry, I just whispering in her mouth is mad stupid, not angry is wise and thus keep going up, repeatedly. This is a method by which the student is often used to overcome anger, while the new temple every story having religious grievances. This method is simple but very effective, especially for people with a temper, or to take his anger overwhelms. In the face of mistakes or errors of others, we tend to criticize, angry and made a big deal out. When we see calm remorse, regret but was too late.
deep breathing is the key to help us calm clear to see that clearly state, inner feelings. The controlling body will help us push back the anger, not like that. In fact, when the student practice this exercise, the lungs will receive a large amount of oxygen, and then quickly spread throughout the body. Quiet time between when you are angry until you complete this exercise will help you regain calm, so calm the mind should know how to transform anger and stop. Anytime you have your stress and temper going, try watching practice this exercise. Our own, here are exercises that I can practice every day, it gives me a sense of peace, relaxation, and help me regain equilibrium to have a comprehensive view, decision- position myself in life.
temper is something ingrained habits, negativity of the oldest fundamental, deeply rooted undergo from countless lifetimes. We present in life, in life and death also propelled by greed, hatred and delusion are three things, which causes vicious in six sugar three realms. Habitual anger almost everyone, including the Sages. So, when confronted with things that are not satisfied as attention, often angry, angry flames rising high flame kindled. Although we attempt to subdue the anger in many forms, but can not stop the anger of a moment is.
Buddhism teaches we need to identify and transform anger attacks. When we are angry with someone, maybe it clear to the enemy that we are angry, not happy about it. I have the suffering of its own, so we need to present a sincere and honest and who is angry. Their anger because they do not make themselves pleasant, satisfied a certain problem. We need to specify the reasons for them to understand and empathize with me more. Or maybe because of our attachment to the mistakes of the past.
therefore we need to establish communication, poorly understood, thoroughly, to mutual understanding and forgiving each other. We should not nurture hatred contained inside the consciousness lasting hatred. It is not a wise attitude behavior of the true Buddhist.
know that I, as someone who has the attitude and actions made miserable by his anger, then first we have to know that the true recipe take the pain before. Therefore, we need to be more sympathetic pity, because they are ignorant dominant, so they act so childish. Maybe they have too much suffering and pain, because so long suppressed contains words should not be so nice.
seeds of anger hidden deep they always make our minds up to love them more is hate. Want to recognize the true nature of anger is not always easy. It's not inherently general picture, there is no place where, just the new situation arising charming touch. Want to disable anger outburst before it, the Buddha taught us to contemplate often, consider inward to're always aware of your individual mind.
said I must be aware of the heavy, bitter , evil only makes us and others to suffering. I have said before speaking wisely and do anything, to prevent harm to others. Just identify yourself well before you face your anger rise, the ability will no longer petulant outburst opportunities. I often reflect deep in his heart and everyone thoroughly. We need to get the mirror to your face when anger anger emerged. If you must see a demonic face shape, then what's ferocious will present the results of a life after that. Certainly, we will become ugly by the time such hatred. Recognizing this part also helps you somewhat less hatred, whence no one wants to be a man ugly as hell La Police?
summary, want to transform your anger effectively, we must cultivate virtues patience and practice can be applied to the following fundamental principles:
We must constantly mindful awareness by monitoring breath, breathing into her that breathing in and breathing out I know exhale.
Prior said or action, we should consider carefully whether it nature or anger?
Let regularly practice mindfulness extends loving kindness to everyone, everything. Open your heart to love, understanding and treat each other with compassion and forgiveness.
deep Let us reflect in the mind, clear seed to germinate anger if it will work for you and suffering. Therefore, we need to transform since in its infancy. Want to be full of patience, we need to have the materials, compassion, sympathetic joy, new exhaust, then transform life contradiction.
kindness can only come from true heart. From the center will become empty, meaningless, if it is only verbal theoretical. Only when we feel it with my heart love and understanding, then we will engage contributed tirelessly serving, boring for others benefit. Our life will be pointless to do okay when there is no heart, compassion, sympathetic joy and discharge.
If we live by the heart, the man so emotionally attached to privacy, a habit commonly for the woman. Parents and grandparents loved ones home with your children without any difficulty. The majority of the world who are doing well, except for a few people living in impersonal.
When Buddha talks about kindness, his affection mean there is no discrimination in the heart. Noble sentiments, we must require that everyone loves like a mother loves her only child. All of you who have children will know the difference when they love their children and other people like. And your child distinguish other people have emotional attachment to privacy. Even when we see a baby car fell, crying, naturally we will help your baby get up and start asking questions, comforting. Or see an old lady crossing the street without a goose, we went to help her through.
Having three states left from the center. The first is kindness. We must have kindness towards each other. If we do not have a good feel for each other, we will never be able to sit together. I will get up, go somewhere else to find ways shunned. Buddhism teaches us to lean on each other to preserve the life of this new from peasant farmers to industries other functions are dependent on each other. Because goodness is the essential condition of life, we can not be without it, without it life would be ruined, tasteless.
Secondly friendship emotional closeness friendly show, with some people as friends, neighbors, people who help us. The friendliness of our lives loving and caring to help each other, but not from the actual hearts. It makes us feel close and loving people, but that's just fancy heart. Cling to friends and relatives, who help us, then that attachment will make us nostalgic longing and suffering because they're afraid of losing. Therefore love is no longer clean. Because the attachment that made us lose heart from no integrity. Family love should be cultivated by heart knows no discrimination conditions. Because love our loved ones so easily reinforce their egos, to ensure survival.
Thirdly friendship is put to the cling, cling. I cling to fear losing their friends. My good friends because they always want to be my friend. But if they return not being treated well, I immediately thought about whether to continue to be friends with them or not. If they abandon us, we will be disappointed overflowing. I need to practice methods patiently and with determination.
Our heart should be trained to love because it does not have to be created to always overflowing love. It may be love, but also hate. It's filled with bad faith, greed, ignorance and fear, but if we do not reduce hatred and develop compassion by changing our behavior in everyday life, the mind is not Can peace be happy.
When we can do all the thoughts, words, his actions. I became more confident and not afraid of anything. I know I've been self-trained to the point will not be a reaction of anger, jealousy, however small will ever happen to make us lose the peace.
Everyone has the opportunity to modify the way his behavior with others. We're always in contact and exchange with others, and always will be people who disagree with us. Then if we are silent, do not bother answering, it is not the reaction of a crush on. Rather it only brings anger, frustration, anxiety, and leads to careless, cold. All that stuff is not useless and does not help us to be pure. Only when we can behave with a loving heart and understanding, then we truly find peace with yourself.
they have a lot to learn in this world, and perhaps the purpose of this world is that, for people to have the opportunity to further their training. Not that we seek comfort, money, wealth, property. Life is a school, this is the most important lesson, the lesson to help further our hearts because of the vastness of life.
's more we love immense, the more we can love more people, as well as many loving people. How much more you give, the more they do this much. Who is going to make more people love me, but do not want to bestow mercy for anyone. If you're giving love to others, it is they will find you. There is no shortage of people to love us. I am giving love to others not because we want to, not because they need to, not because they deserve to, but because my heart was wide open, with all the big heart and generosity.
While people have compassion has nothing to lose. If they have the advantage of being someone else, then it is also an opportunity for us to verify their practice for many years. Is an opportunity for us to enlighten yourself with the right action or not? Unconditional love is always empowered to people, not weakness. But if love coupled with passionate attachment, then that love will make people become greedy and selfish.
An additional benefit that when we get attention from the "fire, poison, can not hurt to us and after we will die in peace. " In the old days people used missiles, poison attacks mutual destruction is now no more that they use guns, atomic bombs, who have extensive heart of things this will not be harmed.
All All of us will eventually die. Minutes before their mortality is very important, because that's the moment of regeneration of a new life, who have no mercy when the going very nervous and scared not know where to go. Persons interested can anticipate from death to heart awareness, so they will definitely come to good wholesome. What do we do in the present with action good or bad it will follow me to the end of his life, dying moments. The bad or good habits will not change dramatically unless that person is outside had vast kindness, I will awake, not anxious fear, but heart filled with peace and happiness . When leaving only can we liberate yourself for the moment that everyone has to go alone.
balls when we share compassion for people, find help and time to heal and feel communion with the suffering of others.
Bi arises when we feel the pain, not like that of others in ourselves. Only so we really empathize with others. If not, we will live in the tribulation detached feel loved even though we still coldly indifferent. To see what the other people difficult, we can sympathize and share with them, because we know that hardly anyone was doing the whole thing like that.
Empathy and forgiveness is the first step leads to love true. Often we are sympathetic and share with our loved ones, like your friends, your colleagues, your religious and your neighbors as well as the choice of the self. This choice pushes people away from each other, and though they work out of this world, the spirit goes according to divide that keeps people will gobble up each other.
again only when we shed ourselves a thorough, fervor, sincerity, can we truly understand true love has no shadow of self. Buddha preached a clear sense of our nature. Our forms are different, but lucid mind, heart love everyone has. Because this ego that we have to protect yourself, your family and your country.
thoughts are always well-stocked by greedy, selfish ego because this ego, they always occur in every one. We constantly protect their egos. If someone looked at us with a friendly manner, or show no gratitude, no love is like we want, then we will generate hate hatred.
Sympathy and share an emotional production from the heart with understanding, no conditions at all. I do not need to wait for the return the favor, because I just love to help sentient beings have a heart. Because our life is a long chain of suffering, disease and death for elderly relatives, so our lives are hidden conflict, unsatisfactoriness, frustration, desire to have more, want not lost pain and everything cool ownership exist forever. Unfortunately for the people with equal love or sympathy for the pain of loss of others who are the real true happiness. Most of us lack the compassion, hard to find happiness everywhere. The compassionate life always have fun, because then we think less of his ego, so little ego. Whom the ego, can not have fun because they never satisfy his ego.
When we have compassion, then we will have to share that joy with others is called joy. In contrast to the joy jealousy, jealousy. Share with others the joy tonic miraculous healing jealousy, envy. Who caught this illness is because they do not know the joy of sharing with others. In this life we share that joy to others, then we will certainly have more opportunities to be happier.
sharing joy with others is one way to transform hatred resentment. It is not only a memory in certain circumstances, or when complications, but we must always remember them because that is the secret to living a life of happiness and peace. Buddha said: "I only teach one thing, life is suffering, and how the cessation of suffering." We must always remember that ego is the source of all suffering so fun when we get self in ourselves, we must try to share the fun for others to follow.
To gain equanimity not only determination want is an order in is enough. Determined to be necessary, but it is easy to lead to suppress the body and mind. The friend eventually our hearts an order in, one of the most noble sentiments. It is the opposite of anxiety, restlessness, clinging to the ego.
A calm or equanimity should come from within. When planted in good, equanimity is one of the seven factors of enlightenment entirely. But if we do not start practicing mind letting go now, it's time to do any new peace and happiness.
To gain equanimity, feel calm and soothing serenity we have to have stamina persistence in adversity every obstacle. If you do not accept, we will suffer the repression of their own. Opposite of acceptance is resistance, opposition, and do so only bring misery. People have been kindness, compassion, sympathetic joy, and then discharged to live a life of peace and happiness that is not encumbered something.
As the husband finds himself right, saw his wife's right, no one who concede into a quarrel altercation with each other forever. So there are two coffins await us. In life, we need each other to make concessions husband said his wife, the husband, the wife guilty party forgiveness ignore that patience and kindness, compassion, sympathetic joy and discharge.
, but if fasting together without have to forgive each other, trying to remember every bad habit of skeptical people are not conditioned to be. Today a little patience, but if tomorrow they met the pirates inner continental expansion. It's inveterate diseases or substances containing it inside. We must ignore always fast, not to mention remind nostalgic retreat, fasting should not be forgotten just repeating what other people do bad forever annoyed angrily up.
It is a fact, from personal life to family and society, never fully harmonize its sole discretion, do not require to be nice out. We must practice patience. Because lifetime habits of many people who are also available as anger, what he or she also gets angry before.
's why we must be careful patience with each other. Through patience we must petal, that is fun but do not give up do not give up artificially. Because we are nothing more than foolish, childish quarrels so new we do not know each other make concessions. I know they do not give out any more cravings anger. Do not even think I have, embracing each other harassment, see the next one to argue anymore, after all the suffering and still goes on.
From the initial fun, Bi's sufferings, Hy is fun, let go Discharge are not attaching any sense objects. Ban fun and cheerful sufferings ignoring forgive hostile resentment, sympathy suffering of other people called, compassion, sympathetic joy, discharge. The fun of people suffering from pain as pleasure herself, glancing celebrate the spirit of selfless suffering selfless compassion is immense. So when that help people who do not see themselves as grace, the grace that guys life. Now this really is true love. If there is a tiny spot because he is not a true love.
situation is not necessarily the mother loves her child compassion, because you do not immediately hear the angry mother. Love is love, compassion assimilation of people suffering as their fun. Sympathy of people suffering such fun, fun original start loving compassion sufferings. Desire for help to repay as bartering is not compassion. Love to satisfy their personal needs, is taking advantage of the love, compassion is not true.
Want arises vast compassion, we must practice empathy with the suffering people happy. Forums to see the suffering of the people as his enthusiastic zeal to help without conditions. People from their suffering is joy, there is a certain agendas to help his people. Seeing her happy and be happy, ones happy his glancing was ready to share with people, described by prize, supported by, and desires by helping share. We have to get her something fun to do something fun for everyone, the fun is the fun of her. Fun miserable with new love sincere.
because of sympathy over the suffering fun together, we will be enthusiastically positive scratched together sharing the joy of suffering. Sympathetic to the suffering of people happy, we started to apply compassion. However kindness, compassion, sympathetic joy, discharge is not limited to, new song of compassion, it comes from near and distant spread. We shared collective understanding of the suffering of family acquaintances, gradually spread to strangers outside.
When compassion was latent within us, then all the anger, delusion, greed, selfishness whereby the killing. The temper of compassion can not be unlawful to beat others. Fire fire burning pitch, compassion is when water dried up. Self-person encounter misery, human compassion could not bear to take his eyes also, need to find every way to the suffering people. If we can not possibility be rescued, heart still aches pain. Scenarios are personally afflicted her for the compassion that does not permit action language torment others.
compassionate person scramble beginning it was lost with losing than others. Because the guys are happy, who lost to pain, suffering vied for each other is doing. Compassion is a fun board sufferings. Humans have mercy is all humanness action wresting competition no more. His main help but bring out to others, can not grab people brought their own. Compassion is a surface showing the people in your life, indulge my inclinations of others. Annoy people is that they are suffering, compassion agreement is not contrary to the wishes of sentient beings.
present general information to put people on the spot for happily, is inversely compassion. This compassion just looks wicked, but tomorrow there will see clearly immense kindness of the people there. The show compassion needs to wise, far sighted to understand the mind of the people that are new to using adversity well. Whatever happiness upon happiness or adversity is a good resource for helping board. The essence of compassion is a cool gentle peace, so how everyone I met felt joy.
compassion we all expect perfection when no discrimination. As expected distinguished career mode chasing love with hate, bittersweet difficult to bring true love to all beings equally. When food was clean now, only a clear mind can wander equality embraces all human beings, regardless of who is the other one, I do have injuries arising hate making attachment. Living with this mind be enlightened creatures or objects with understanding hearts. Compassionate love is absolutely no attempt, more lost, get lost, just to see people suffer much help. Those evil satanic hatred, greed, jealousy having orange juice recipe compassionate hand kneeling rules are accepted goods. Compassion where there is suffering all melted away.
compassion as sweet as milk flow, such as compassion cool afternoon breeze collection, compassion bright as the full moon, compassion arises wanted thousands of merit such kindness fertile nurturing things. We respect those who love carrying the compassion, who praised praised the new found compassion, longing dreams who will learn compassion. Everyone we work to arouse compassion stream, to a flood of day, cooling the hot earth are by hatred, ignorance. Happiness in the human world, if yes, when water overflow compassion.END=VIETNAMESE TRANSLATE ENGLISH BY=THICH CHAN TANH.THE MIND OF ENLIGHTMENT.WORLD VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST ORDER=VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST NUN=GOLDEN LOTUS MONASTERY=THE EIGHTFOLD PATH.NAM MO SAKYA MUNI BUDDHA.( 3 TIMES ).AUSTRALIA,SYDNEY.28/9/2014.
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