True kindness and kindness.VIETNAMESE TRANSLATE ENGLISH BY=VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST NUN=THICH CHAN TANH.

True kindness and kindness, will a person living with kindness be trampled and taken advantage of?

🙏Question: I enjoyed his teachings on Kindness, kindness, no greed, no clinging, altruism, and tranquility. However, I still question the kindness attitude, cross my arms and let go. I'm concerned that others will trample on me. Do you think this is a dangerous thing, and if we only know being kind, will people trample us?

 

🍀Answer: If you are a fool, of course people will step on you. If you take kindness as a polite and emotionally sensitive attitude and apply it in all circumstances, you will surely fail. No one can do this. The more you behave like that, the more stupid you will be  , and the more people disrespect you, because what you do is fake and dishonest. But true Lovingkindness has a very powerful power, and it is the right behavior and appropriate for life. It is not the politeness and kindness to please others, but the awareness, the absorption of pain and the other pleasures and conditions we encounter in life.

The nature of Lovingkindness is indistinguishable. Because of the discrimination and comparison, we only care about the wrongs of life and exacerbate the unfair disadvantages we or others face. Kindness doesn't pretend all is well. Kindness is not to cause additional difficulties, not to pour out the anti-hatred that comes from  ignorance  over existing suffering or evil. Kindness is the ability to be patient and accept what happens in life. Having a negative attitude and aversion towards yourself is an extreme. But pretending to believe things are always going well is another extreme. This pretense is self-deception.

True compassion and true wisdom go hand in hand. Although not dominated by ignorance, our reactions to life are not necessarily always joyful and happy. We can be very painful and even angry. But we can still be full of compassion. This means that we have the right response - the response is not out of craving or fear. Kindness can be a painful slap or an intimate pat on the shoulder. Here, the problem is not the slap or the pat. Kindness is the wisdom behind our actions. END=NAM MO SHAKYAMUNI BUDDHA.( 3 TIMES ).GOLDEN AMITABHA MONASTERY=VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST NUN=THICH CHAN TANH.AUSTRALIA,SYDNEY.10/10/2020.