One of the most difficult things in everyone's life is "stand up after failure." Most of the great people in the world are those who suffer from "dozens" of failures. So how to stand up later and find success?
Just suffer
When you encounter a failure, if you want to cry, keep crying, if suffering keep suffering. Don't try to hide your suffering, because you can never hide, suffering when failure is a rule. If you try to hide the suffering at that time, then it will come out at some point and it is much more dangerous.
A person's level after failing is not how he hides his emotions but how he stands up afterwards. Learning to cope with your own feelings when you fail, or when success is an art. Of course, in many cases you have to hide your emotions, but if possible, just cry when needed.
Consistency - see failure as temporary
When you fail, it is very easy to shake the will and spirit, it is important that you are consistent with the goals and the path you have chosen. Do not be afraid of failure and attach it to yourself, consider it only temporary, and I will overcome it soon. Remember the successful examples in the world, they failed a lot and got those successes, and so will we.
Listen and ignore
When we fail, there will be two streams of opinions. First, encourage, encourage, support and advise. The second is decry, indecent, ... And what we need is to listen to encouraging words, advice, experiences, words of encouragement to have more strength to stand up after failure. And ignore the decry, rumors, evil, ... to not be lost, lose your will.
Action and "peeling off" failed
Do not keep "crying", "steadfast", "listen", ... but act. Only action can turn failures into experiences. Act so that those who have "labeled" failure show us that "they were wrong", that we are "peeling off" the failure.
Do not try to be perfect, be progressive
One thing no one can deny is that no one is perfect and the job cannot be done perfectly. Do not be sad when the work is not perfect as you want. But "slap yourself in the face" if the work doesn't improve. It means that we do not force the perfect work, but always try our best to keep the work progress, today is higher than yesterday.
Do not forget the failures
When doing any work, keep in mind the failures experienced. But remember what? Those are the experiences, the lessons, the advice after those failures to avoid the past "car wrecks".
Even when succeeding, succeeding brilliantly, you cannot forget the failures. On the one hand, remember the failures to add your precious achievements. In addition, remember the failures to maintain existing success. END=NAM MO SAKYAMUNI BUDDHA.( 3 TIMES ).WORLD VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST ORDER=GOLDEN AMITABHA MONASTERY=VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST NUN=THICH CHAN TANH.AUSTRALIA,SYDNEY.18/8/2019.