The way to neutralize hatred in many lifetimes from the perspective of Buddhism.

"Hateful rejection in many lives" is a story told by the Buddha about how to deal with human beings in the face of conflicts and resentments.

This sutta was taught by the Buddha to a rare and difficult woman who gave birth to a baby and nursed him while he was staying at the Jade Buddha.

We are the followers of the Buddhist virtues, lifelong commitment to love, forgiveness, harmony and tolerance that treat the people around. 

The story begins in the pre-life, when Buddha Shakyamuni has not yet appeared in this world. Having a son, father died soon, he was raised in the care of the maternity care.

Growing up as usual, he was raised by his mother but unfortunately his wife was suffering from infertility. His mother was hot, intending to find his wife for him. Knowing the intentions of the mother-in-law, the wife actively chooses her husband a concubine.

But life can also be shared, personal feelings and personal happiness of life is very difficult to share. Therefore, although the initiative to marry his wife but also his wife wicked heart evil wife harm. So two pregnancies were miscarried by his first wife, and the third time, knowing that he was pregnant, his wife did not inform everyone in the house, but then his wife learned that she was pregnant. Avoid pretending to stay away to prepare silent plot.

Then the opportunity came, one day her wife mixed drugs for abortion pregnant woman but because the fetus has grown to make her wife writhe pain. When he and his fetus can not live, near the end of his breath, the bearer swears: "You killed me ... you killed me and you also killed my three children ... in the next life I swear it would be rubbish your baby. "

Wanting to neutralize hatred, there is nothing other than compassion. 

The vow was finished and his wife died shortly and soon resurrected in the same family brought cat life. The husband, when he learned that his ex-wife had done such cruel things three times, had poured out his anger on her, resulting in her death.

After his wife's death, he was reborn in the house, but many of his iniquities were with him, but with the hen. The time passed, every hen laying eggs was eaten by the cats. Many times like this between cats and chickens to create a new oan. The resonance of samsarism corresponds to the reporter, the doo deer, and the injustice continues to remain unresolved.

It was not until the time of Sakyamuni Buddha, who was born as a noble daughter, who was reborn as a devil. Growing up daughter who married her near the gate of Xa Vay, ya hear news came to visit. Soon after, the girl gave birth, the yakuza pretended to visit, and left the opportunity to swallow the baby.

The third time, the girl decided not to give birth to her husband but to her mother. After birth, the mother is relatively strong, healthy, they retired outside and returned to Shan State where the husband was waiting. On the way back to near Jade Yan, then suddenly encounter the devil , the mother was so scared that she ran straight to the infirmary, met the Buddha and kneeled before him, saying, "Please offer this baby, please save him." Devil chase to the gate was blocked by angels Sumana. Know the story, Buddha told A-nan invited the devil to rub.

Before the devil and mother, the Buddha asked: "Why do you do that? If you do not meet an enlightened Buddha like me, you will hold grudges forever, passing from one life to another. Why do you repent, and this does not solve your tribulation? Oan oan corresponded, only the release of forgiveness, tolerance for each other reconciled to hatred. After saying this, the Buddha recounts the rivalry attaching to the many lives of both of them as a part of the story and advises them not to resent each other.

After hearing the dhamma of the Buddha, the two have recognized their past lives and forgive each other. Buddha told the mother to bring the baby to the embryo, the mother heard and believe the Buddha. The other boy received the baby and gently patted, cuddling like his own children. Moments later, the demon returned to his mother. Since then, they have run out of hatred and behaved kindly. On that occasion, the Buddha summarized the verse:

"Hate to destroy hatred

This life can not be

Compassion killing hate

Is the law of revenue.

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Hate is a dangerous mental affair. It always hugs what happens to cause it not satisfied.Since it is kept forever and over time the hatred grows, at a time. Yes, the time is ripe, it will be right now.

Through the above story and the teachings of the Buddha, we must overcome the love of hate, resentment and hatred often to raise the banner of compassion, love, selflessness and altruism for the person and love oneself. Take compassion to clean up the karma, take altruism to remove hatred.

We are the followers of the Buddha's practice, wish to be forever loving, forgiving, blissful and tolerant, treating the people around us, who have affinity with us, embracing hatred and harming each other. We must turn our consciousness into a consciousness of tolerance, openness, and respect for life. In that way, we enter and open the space of peace and happiness. END=NAM MO SAKYAMUNI BUDDHA.( 3 TIMES ).VIETNAMESE TRANSLATE ENGLISH BY=THICH CHAN TANH.VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST NUN=GOLDEN AMITABHA MONASTERY=AUSTRALIA,SYDNEY.21/12/2018.