Pay attention to rings & rats to let go of jealousy.

 In life, jealousy is commonplace people understand. Jealousy, overcoming, afflictive as an inherent characteristic, with the seed available in the human mind. When the happiness of others is not there, it is also a cause of jealousy even though it is unreasonable. We can imagine as an angry baby winning mother's milk or mother's affection for another child.

Envy makes you eat not sleep well. Envy jealousy makes me feel lonely solitary private life abdominal death, every day to sketch a tricks to try to drown the other lucky.

Let go of the gentle, relaxed - 

Envy is the product of jealousy, the child of the greedy companion. The enlightenment appears when there is a difference between good and bad, lower than the high and low, between one and the other when interacting with one another in a living environment. Without envy, perhaps human beings will have a more peaceful life. There is no jealousy, no sectarianism, disputes, divisions, slander and no scenes of the king hating my servants in disagreement with the gods - damaging the gods. And, because of jealousy, that causes harm to others. 

"The person is jealous, more miserable than anyone else," and more gentle, "The more you judge, the less you love." The feeling of jealousy makes me dissatisfied with myself, or judgment on a certain object. Instead of having to do better than the other, in contrast, making the comparative disappears from the earth, making it out of date inferior to itself. The cause of jealousy is discrimination. Distinguishing classes, talents, money, happiness, beauty, reputation ... even endurance to communication skills, education. In general, jealousy appears in both material and spiritual categories! It is difficult to "happy people's fun" should not lie "in the fresh out"!

Why did the Five Forbearers hand over the bowl to Luo Nang's nest at midnight? Are the Five Devotions forbearance jealousy will appear in the hearts of the disciples. "The seeds of suffering in us can be very big, but do not wait until there is no suffering to allow yourself to be happy." Therefore, "people always have difficulty in letting go of suffering."

The jealousy is to bring the chain for yourself, and also yourself to find a way to remove. Clear suffering, the suffering caused by the mind, it is very contradictory, like the life story is suffering that want to live long life!

In fact, jealousy does not bring long-term benefits to you, but only bring the heart disease, suffering to the level of stress in life, often away from other people suspected and ... self-isolate  "Gnaw crap in the iron cage / I lie looking at the date gradually "  ( Remember Forest , The Lu). That's all!

A certain angle, jealousy is just defamation, despise yourself, while life line is open hand. Humility and tolerance are also the Buddha Nature within themselves that I do not recognize. At times self-thinking negative, even if the scene is "disgusting eyes", then why not "ignore" to calm yourself if you are the only people know, speak out carrying heavy "speech"! Thought it was not my own, it is called heaven or my blessing just that. Fate is fate, shoes and sandals have a number that! Pole has not comforted themselves, try to strive upward, patience ...; Rings in the extraction of the word Han (the word on the center of mind) that cut off sorrow. 

At times compared to the form, it also faces the number of legs as limbs as I do not rich as luxurious as it is strange! Do not neglect those who flood a fog, bicycles to buy bottles of feather duck feathers ... because they float the floor two three floors do not know when (like the old Chinese people). So, the answer of jealousy is to end with the words: patience, courage, reality, self-esteem, consciousness, understanding yourself. 

So can, jealousy divided into two: negative and positive attitude. Negative makes you lose yourself, cracking the solidarity of the collective, the disagreement over the head loser ... as someone said: "The only people using the hammer would have noticed the whole thing. are nails ". On the contrary, with a positive attitude, jealousy is just a motive force on the way to repair themselves, to reflect on themselves to improve and more to understand "no roses, thorns. Every successful bid by bruising "that straight up properly strive to rise!

In a Buddhist or secular society too. Negative envy is the barbed wire barrier that prevents solidarity, which kills the organizational sustainability. It kills mutual respect, disrupts the spirit of Hyun. Leadership no one respect (pass the heart is not dressed), no staff enthusiasm (make yes). The hard part here is, instead of being happy, there are leaders who are jealous of their employees because of some technical skill. Then, souls who keep, do good to avoid the data! "My job, I do - Loc he, he received", just because the "rice cooker" only, thinking about sitting together tea talk about the future.

And, in a Buddhist family unit, how? Do you need a chair? How many of you - she is ranked as the boss is still sitting in the water because of not assigned tasks. Why? He - she does not believe in her ability or is the victim of jealousy? It can be said that for many objective reasons - some subjective, who knows! Not to mention someone who wants to prove himself as someone, considered his "wish" and then indifferent to the unit ... also derived from jealousy "he is okay".

No matter how far away, there are cases in your family deliberately alienated, rich and poor, are distinguished by the difference. Mouth does not speak, but the eyes tell almost everything, because the eyes are the window of the soul!

Do not live in comparison because understanding life is never fair, the nature of life is struggling to survive. Fairness is only a goal for people to strive for. Again, the race must also be defeated losers ... no type of capital! Grandma said encouraging "the river has a song, people have time," "who is rich three family, who difficult three generations!" Is that. And, do not you hate your neighbors and hide your face, while there is only one entrance?

Nothing to fear, nothing to lose. Courage to look at yourself that strive to rise, step by step to success. Right understanding, righteousness, success is no one can deny the truth. At that time, no one more than anyone, jealousy flew, (and also can be replaced as pride, pride that should not have if you do not know who you are in this world). 

Living in need of a heart "just because he realized the word" enough "(wealth - convenience) and thought the scene Ta-grandmother changed the impermanence should" let the wind go ... ". Then, let's live happy, free travel, eliminate the jealousy hate than lose, laughed so happy for everyone lucky to avoid the fratricidal scene, loss of friendship, heart Joint construction of the roof. END=NAM MO SAKYAMUNI BUDDHA,( 3 TIMES ).VIETNAMESE TRANSLATE ENGLISH BY=THICH CHAN TANH.VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST NUN=GOLDEN AMITABHA MONASTERY=AUSTRALIA,SYDNEY.7/11/2018.