Life is short so let's live together.

The need to please each other has made people one more way than the truth. The performances always occur in the early relationship, the meeting hastily, giving the object contact always have a good impression of themselves. Of course, when we wear a decent suit to meet an important person, it is an attitude of respect for others. We call it culture.

But that will become a cloak culture if we aim only for the other person to appreciate or have more sympathy for us. The selfish interest is masked by the kindness that sometimes we ourselves mistaken for others.

Culture is a way of life that makes people better and more beautiful. But the good and the beautiful, if not with the true, as the trio can not separate the foot-good-aesthetic, then that is just a superficial jewelry. The "mind-numbing" art can create a salty and fluid taste in close relationships in society, but if it is not careful, it is a trap that lets you lose yourself. 

People tend to be attracted to sweet, elaborate and polite words. So to get a high score in the eyes of others, we did not hesitate and sometimes have to try to mold things to suit the thoughts or interests of the enemy, while our hearts are empty. or completely contrasted.

Now people have made "winged words" to give each other as a premium gift. It is true that we will be happy and impressed after the encounter with the other person to give the words that only in the dream or the new realm. The handler does not take the initiative to bear all the responsibility for the wind-fly speech, the recipient also infected the emotion so there is no longer the spirit to distinguish it sincerely or pushed for fun.

Exactly the other person wants to be happy so they have boldly said so, in the mind they think so, or they can do so forever not need to be investigated. Because those who are suffering from sleepwalking in love often need emotion rather than truth. What does he want me to do? It is possible that when he is happy he will be happy, but also if we are happy, then we will find ways to make him happy. That's not the case.

The essence of the good impression that people often want to leave in relationships is the exchange of emotions, the other gives us a good feeling so we also give a good feeling. But if a relationship that exchanges good emotions is just love or affection. I have been married for many years but the other side still do not understand the true face of how well, because I was very talented.

But tomorrow when the sun rises, the other also discovered, because not always enough to camouflage forever. Not because of the adverse circumstances, but because of the lack of energy to continue acting. I am tired and need to live with myself. The bad thing is that after the fall, not only did the other collapse, but we did not find our true self anymore. 

That is a tragedy. I did a pilgrimage too far away so when I returned to the old house I could not find the key to open the door. I was standing in front of my own house and mind as a stranger from any new way. I do not know what I have said, what I have done, what I have thought of what a peaceful life, leisure and happiness as the old days ...

There are few people in this world who are crying when they can not find the true person. The price is too expensive to pay for a hard-earned exchange of life with which no one is predicted. Sometimes, in the heaven and the earth, they can not find the pristine lost in the crazy storm of childhood. There is no pure soul, how can live, can love. It's tragic!

Although we want to continue the role of life for forgetting the truth is exposed in the heart, we also can not escape forever, night and night we still have to face it alone. Alcohol, other addictive substances or amusement will dissolve; People come and go back to themselves. At that time I find myself pitiful how poor. Love the false perception, thinking that artificial borrowing can cover up the deadlock of suffering or the deepest desires of life.

Then we have to repatriate, then we must return to ourselves. Do not wait to lie down on the bed, no longer struggling again, I just repented regretting facing my own great darkness is very frightening. I will be amazed at the brilliance of the flow of emotions, will surprise with the malicious traits or crazy ideas that are present in me. We are now like a ruined ruined house, looking everywhere empty, even if no commitment will not bear, but dare not rely on other places.

Be aware of your life in the past and check that you are still yourself or are busy on the path of corruption. I'm still in time. Every day look at yourself in the mirror for a long time to have a chance to look back at your present self. After the layer of lipstick, after the adjustment set, after that serious face, who are we? Ask several times and find the answer from the bottom of your heart. And smile if you still have contact with yourself.

We should also have a few minutes a day to sit back and think about each of our gestures in each of our most intimate relationships, so that we can see in reality that they have a shadow of disguise. If the discovery is in the case of force majeure or not active, then we should also repent with the heart, the next promise will pass without fail like that again. 

Many times self-purification so will practice new habits, real life. Because living alone can give us a life of peace, happiness and true freedom. Only real life can nourish the relationships that persist. Any borrowings or fake ones will vanish in an instant as fog like smoke.

And only when we see life in the realm of heaven is enough to make the decision to return, because the stream of life is full of traps and intense attraction. Going back is a practice, not wanting to do right. You have to accept sudden encounters or stumbling blocks in the initial practice, standing in front of the choice between the new and the old, between real life or veiled.

Of course, because of the need to balance our society, we should not be eccentric but disrespectful of others, deliberately losing our minds. It is important to be alert to identify and observe each line of emotion and thought. I will discover the hidden implications behind my statements and actions. If there is a lie in it, then we should try to stop immediately, determined not to continue to lose ourselves just for a few minutes to satisfy the feelings.

Let's face it with the truth, live with the truth. Maybe we are not familiar and even many in the society are not familiar. In the name of understanding and love, we stick to real life to remind everyone to follow. Give back to this lovely world the truth just as it is, so it is the new belief in happiness and love is not a fantasy. Help the future generation a bright road, where there is no shadow of the hollow ..END=NAM MO SAKYAMUNI BUDDHA.( 3 TIMES ).VIETNAMESE TRANSLATE ENGLISH BY=THICH CHAN TANH.THE MIND OF ENLIGHTENMENT.VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST NUN=GOLDEN LOTUS MONASTERY=AUSTRALIA,SYDNEY.17/7/2018.