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If someone says something that hurts you, criticizes or humiliates you, how do you react? You will be angry, fire burned on people, you will suppress the anger or will tolerate it?

The story of the Buddha below will give us a deep lesson to keep our xinxing and self-control.

One day, the Buddha was on his way to coast through a village, suddenly a group of people pulled to find him and say the words are very rude even very nasty dirty.

Buddha lied.

The Buddha just listened quietly, after they finished saying calmly said: "Thank you for coming to find me, but I have work to go immediately, the village people are waiting for me, I have to go there. is already. Tomorrow when I have enough time, then if you have anything to say to me, will we meet again? "

When they heard the words, they could not believe their ears. They were all amazed. "What happened to this man?" One of them asked the Buddha, "Did not you hear us say something? We told him not to come out, but he did not react at all. "

Buddha said, "If you want me to react, it's too late, you have to go back ten years to see me react. But for ten years I was no longer in control, I was no longer a slave, I was my master. I just rely on what I need to do and not follow the reactions of others. "

Peace of mind, good thoughts will be overwhelmed.

Right! If you are doing what you need to do, if someone is angry or insulting you, it is not a problem for him. Because he wants to say how to do it, it is his moral cultivation, what can you do?

In daily life, you will definitely encounter disagreements or get harsh words. Your reaction to these contradictions is an inner mirror of reflection within you.

There are people who like the top of the wall, when the wind blows to the west, then back to the west, the wind blowing in the east, immediately turn to the east, always dominated by the outside without control of his own. When confronted with contradictions or humiliation, they can not keep calm and immediately fight the enemy, the actions of the opponent determine their reaction, they have accidentally become slaves. others.

Never let the outside affect you.

But to be immobile in front of the environment and to master themselves is a long process of cultivation, not natural to do. If you have a good sense of self, learn to tolerate patience, always think positive and good heart to others, then definitely have a day you will do.

At that time, your mind is no longer the grass - the wind that has blown to a halt is shaken, your mind as stable as the mountain - no matter what the wind can not shake! END=NAM MO SAKYAMUNI BUDDHA.( 3 TIMES ).VIETNAMESE TRANSLATE ENGLISH BY=THICH CHAN TANH.THE MIND OF ENLIGHTENMENT.VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST NUN=GOLDEN LOTUS MONASTERY=AUSTRALIA,SYDNEY.24/7/2018.