Language

Words  not losing money to buy  
Choose your words carefully to  please  each other. 
Said nothing sad heart,  
heart happy  words  sweet  cute . 
When you  love , say anything okay,  
Hurt, say backwards. 

In life  everyday , to understand each other to know each other,  exchange of news ,  popular  culture ,  people  often use  the language , ie:  writing and speech. Sometimes, not the same  words , not the same voice, but  people  can also  know  each other through the  manner ,  gestures , facial expressions,  attitudes , or voice. 

A  problem  major for the  families  of Vietnamese living overseas it is:  Issue Language . 

For  generations  ago, Vietnamese is the mother tongue, so savvy  clear , but dialects are not  fluent . For  the  next generation, the local language is fluent , although Vietnamese  is the mother tongue, but the words are  stumbled ,  forced , hungry. Why so? Because  generation  after  absorbing  cultural  westernization ,  contact  with  society  outside more, also in the  family ,  generations  ago wanted to practice speaking the local language with  generation  later, So the  previous generation forget about the teaching of Vietnamese for the  next generation  , even though the mother is Vietnamese. The two  generations  speak two different languages, Vietnamese and dialects, so they can not  sympathize with  each other easily. Story  sympathy  together often  leads to  the breakdown  happy  family , that natural life  afflictions  suffering, no  inevitably  be. 

Two people speak two different languages, it is difficult to  sympathize with  each other. How about two people speaking the same language, is it  easy to sympathize, or vice versa, easy to touch each other? Why so? Because, although speaking a single language, but  depending on  words ,  depending on the  voice, or  depending on  how they say, two people can  sympathize , or touch each other. 

Words  have  influenced  a lot to  living  the life  of  every person  on  earth this. Whether they  know each other  beforehand, or do  not know each other, when meeting with one another,  people  often say hello  to each other . Greeting, cleverly  polite ,  cheerful  openness, can begin a relationship,  good  long-term . 

Someone opened their mouth to say, even one word, everyone liked, also loved, also  sympathize , also  believe  , are also listening. Some people also open mouth to say, no matter  how much , nobody believes, no one hears, no one likes, no one likes. There are  words that  bring coolness in  the soul of  the listener. The listener  feels  like just taking a sip of   fresh orange juice. There are also  words that  make the listener go to an anointing is hard, either, must take medication headache, sometimes faint, or, take a breath! 

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Within the  scope of  this article,  we  only consider  the matter of  words , through  the teachings  of the Buddha only. In  the teachings  of  Buddhism ,  the problem of  speech  is mentioned in the  Four Freemasons of France , which is "linguistic". Four French Photographs  is a  method that  has  the function of rejuvenating the  human mind ,  including  four things:  generosity ,  loving speech , compassion and  companionship . 

Let's  look at: What is love? Kind words  are:  words  softly ,  softly  sweet, easy listening  cute , comes from the  kindness  compassion  petal , emanate  from the mind  pure , derived from compassionate as yourself. Kind words  are not  preface their lips, not the  verbal  rhetoric , not  words  flattering formal, remains so  pleasing to  the listener, in a way not true, sometimes contain  intended party in. Kind words  have  effects  bring joy, peace  serenity  to the listener. Kind words have  effects  consoling  pat on  the  soul  thermal brain , anxiety fear. 

Therefore,  we  know that  words , as well as laughter, sometimes cause  goodfeelings , sometimes also cause  aversion , hatred between  people  together . Just miss a  word , there is a big damage. Just miss a  word , may be  inflicted , sued, even, imprisonment, just because the listener does not fit, so put away the report! This also depends on the person, depending on  the  mood, or the  feeling of the listener. 

In the book there are sentences:

"Accordance with imports, exports". 

Means diseases, usually from the mouth, enter the body, causing  harm. Disasters  occur, often by  word of mouth, from the mouth, causing  harm . We know that, in addition to fame and fortune, in  this world  ,  people  often ,  dispute with each other , only because of  speech . Two people talk  to each other  for a while, do not make concessions to each other, no other concessions,  surely  put to ,  the dispute  quarrel. A  wise  person is one who  does the following: 

Words do  not touch me.

Whatever  words  sweet or bitter. 

People with  intellectual  was not  mistaken , is not  enchanted , because those  words  sweet, lip, not  frustrating  because those  words  outspoken  candid . These  words  molasses sweet, blades lips, sometimes led  us to trappings unexpected, came to crushing  happy  family , to place itself remains ma wild, to where disgraced, to place Go home to dissipate, to  dissipate  the career , sometimes even die yawn, not understand why! 

These  words  outspoken directness, but not ingenious, but often help  us awaken ,  get rid of  the pain  delusions , no longer entangled within pagan! When  the mind average static  calmly  before all the  circumstances ,  we  can master the  words ,  control  actions and  tame  been  thought  of himself. When the mind is  agitated , the   more we say, the more we get angry, the more we do  wrong  , the more  we  become more disturbed. Therefore, in the book, there is a sentence:

Want to say seven or three.

Two more, one is happy. 

The Patriarchs have taught:

"Interior need to commemorate the public.

Extravagant non-virtue ". 

That is inside,  we  always,  overpower  fix, finish dues  mind ,  whirring  mess . Whenever the thoughts,  gasoline  mess , arise in the mind,  we  immediately know, leave do not follow. Everything will be quiet, happy  benefit . At that time called: "Pure peace of mind." What is this:  Mindfulness  whirring? It is  mindfulness :  discriminatory discrimination  ,  disputed over losing, high self-conceited, self-  conquering , self-sufficiency. In general, mindful thoughts:  self-attachment  and  attachment ,  

Knowing  such, is  elaborate ,  practice  really, from  Buddhists ,  home-home . For the outside,  we  always keep the well of patience, always  practice ,  vows  to listen, no criticism, no controversy, though a big deal, big deal, too. Understanding this, is the  virtue ,  the  real practice, of  Buddhists ,  at home . Those who want to have   true merit , should  thoroughly ,  practice the  teachings of the  Patriarchs, Not that: go to pagodas  , many sacrifices, many  prostrations  , many blessings, think so, many  merit , top  blessings  . That's not true! In the book there are sentences: 

The word is  changed to black.

Heaven  hell  hustle any way?

Speaking mindlessly.

Keep mind  meditation , how  peaceful . 

People call themselves: he is the teacher, grandfather grandfather, Miss Uncle Cau, Uncle Auntie, what is even, even the "guy", really is okay, the heart, they know take, I do not mind,  equanimity  self in , stupid angry, people right users, not themselves do not like, nor  offensive , around more tired! 

People often say: "The tongue is not bone, many lines twinkle." Means the tongue of  man  has no bone, so  people  want to say what type, how to say, how to say,  according to  case ,  depending on the  circumstances ,  according to  the personality of each person. Who  often said the opposite said downstream, do not hold  the prestige , not hold  status , not  a promise , it is  ironic : that kind of person,  or the  swallow , as life became cake! 

The book says: "One person speaks in a straight line, three villages do not argue." Ie: when a person, speaking  swaggering , regardless of  justice , stubborn  bigotry , around three villages, no one  ignored , nobody argued, no one  jackass,  dues  charge capacity, charge both  Time , more than lose to them. Not the three villages are not back! 

In the old days  the matter: A  ignorance , not understanding  the Dharma , so always,  let the word  criticize ,  denigrate  vilification,  libel  qualify. Until the  day, thanks to all  predestined , suddenly  understanding , he  repent ,  regret incredibly . He thinks that there is only one way, cut off, his tongue, can expect to,  redeem the  mistake ,  too  great strength , have done before. Luckily  , when it's about to  be done ,  the  intention is to cut off the tongue,  

He advised that: This day before, because of  ignorance , has used the tongue,  defamation of the Dharma , creating sin of creating karma. Now understand, all  things , use the tongue, to promote the  Dharma , bring  benefits , for many people. Also a tongue, help people harm people,  depending on  the nature of each  individual . People  actually , living with the  mind , or the Buddha's mind? 

Because of  his speech  is hard to hear, people often call it a stab, say the throat, so no one wants to  make friends  with him, no one dared to be friends with him, no one dared to confide in himself. . Why so? Because, living in the world, where no one likes, by others to play, scavenged  privacy , combed  family ,  ancestors of his testimony of history, bringing  up the  newspaper, eagle population  galaxy,  people  All know Also, if you arrogant  exaggerating , snapped bluntly, did not stop cursing,  face  change, advises people  honest ,  gentle  cute , 

Words  sometimes have unpredictable  effects  . There are  words  can bring joy,  happiness  for people. There are  words  can bring apart, shattered  happiness  of others, sometimes broken  happiness  of the people say. There are  words , make the listener,  smiling  cheerful,  happy and  healthy. There are  words , make the listener, wrinkled frowning, headache brain aches, flushed intestines, heart palpitations sleep! There are  words  that can save people, there are  words  that can harm people, easily. 

For example  as:  Speech  of you,  lawyer  conscientious , hard-earned hard-range,  profession  noble, can save people,  get rid of  sin oan, and such attempts, of a witness, perjury  to lie , Made to others, imprisonment. A  doctor , smart choice  words , encourage dissuade,  comforting  encouragement, soothing  the spirit , help patients, reassuring convalescence, fleeting  dangerous , soon  recovered . By vice versa,  words unintentionally , can make the patient agitation, illness  severity , and died instantly. 

Like  speech , the diplomat, or angels, or  messengers , can bring peace the two countries, or waging war, infantry fire spread, throughout  everywhere . Sometimes  words , of a  human being ,  of  greater power , of an army. Someone often talks sweetly to the outsider, but to  loved ones , inside  the family , never  speaks  so sweetly. 

Humans  often , do not  fancy  each other,  interrupt  each other, just because of  words , even  friends , or between spouses,  parents  and children. But  when, a  misfortune ,  unfortunately  passed away, others lamenting,  lengthy texts , weeping  bitterly , said  the words earnestly , miss the skin away, even with  regret, too late! 

Have something strange, in  the world  of this, it is this:  people  often only can talk, sweet,  cute , with people lying down, just lie still,  motionless  to listen, not  to answer , Quarrels, or talk,  everyday  , with a grave of beer, outside the graveyard. But when that person, alive  now ,  people can not, open mouth speak, say a word, for easy listening, for the cute! Why? Perhaps because  man  often does not, afraid of the living, but afraid of him, died  back , strangled him? 

Humans  can  love  animals , dogs, cats and mice,  to  insects, but often  whenthey can not  bear it , they can not hold it, those around them,  parents  , brothers and children, Friends near and far, neighbors, just for one thing: their  words  , why so hard to hear! Why? Because  animals , do not know how to hear, do not speak human, so do not be,  human  indifferent! Common people say: Two chickens hate each other, just because of the crows. Two dogs hate each other, just for barking. Two  singers , ever loved each other?

There is  a story  of two birds as follows: One day, the owl bird, preparing to move the nest, moved to  another place . The  pigeon , see that  : Asked whether or not you intend, moving the nest go? The people replied, "  The people  here are so angry that they see me everywhere, they parked at me, they stoned, or I got a damn. I can not bear, to move the nest, through the west,  hoping  that, the people  are gentle  , not like here. The  dove said: In the neighborhood, long intimate, say you do not listen, do not angry me. If you do not fix, the screams are  horrible , the ears are aching, it's hard to hear, no matter where you are, it's too bad! 

People with different ethnic backgrounds may  live with one another  , people  may not  understand what other people say, because of  language differences , but one can guess what other people want to say, by face, speech and voice. pot. So your faces, and voices saying  we  also play a  role  important in the  communication , or  contact  daily . Voice  softly ,  politely  delicate , sweet, humble, sharp face  gentle ,  cute  endearing, photography to please people, rather than voice, hollow fence fence, noisy  noisy  noisy, lemon sour star fruit tart, It's hard to hear, Face red flush, facial arm surgery. Words gentle ,  gracious  and elegant ,  intimate  honest , upright,  clear ,  lucid  smart, open-minded  fun , very easy,  touched  people's hearts, can guide and people on  the right path . In the book there are sentences: Can lead, the right path . In the book there are sentences: Can lead, the right path . In the book there are sentences: 

Birds cherish the  sound of leisure .

The wise man speaks  soft and easy  to hear. 

When  practicing  virtues  of generosity ,  at the same time ,  we  should  practice loving speech . That is: when for something, anything to help,  we  should do, with all my heart,  compassion  equality , and use  words ,  softly  softly , exhort  consolation , encouragement. We  understand that: people should thank the recipient, not expecting the recipient to remember. Why so? Because, thanks to the recipient, the donor has the opportunity to do good. Understood as such, 

In the book there are sentences:

Piece when hungry when the package.

The hair of hair is a thousand times identical. 

On that means thousands of identical things, because  words  kindly , when brought to a piece of that. In other words,  grace  created from how to give, and,  say  when, not  entirely  because of give. The book also says, "The way to give is to give," is the meaning. By vice versa, someone  alms , with a seeking mind, the rewards,  expect  newspapers grace , or constantly told,  grace  did, with many others, he is  sure , get the abruptness, from who  expectancy thanks . And  such a  good deed loses  the  noble meaning . Blessed  if any, It is also very narrow, like the narrow mind, of the benefactor. Who lives ironic , so called:  almsgiving three per  village, or:  almsgiving  are the three villages. Means that the person  giving  money, or bring  wealth  to others, then shouted to the three villages, villages or hamlets below, between neighbors, knows. Sometimes not  good at using words , while  giving , instead of being grateful, on the  contrary , the victim was  hateful , without knowing! In many  cases , it happens, right in  the family , between relatives, even spouses,  parents,  children, or  siblings  ! 

In the  family ,  if not  sympathetic , the wife  conflicts , because of  speech , no one to hold back, should seek outsiders, invite party, party big party, have the opportunity to talk, small enough story,  In the sky  under the sea, really wasting  time ,  should be  dedicated to,  tu mind  care. There are  words , in the Supper,  afterthought ,  harm  immensely , incalculable harm! 

In the book saying: "First sign language production,  with four horses  difficult access". Meaning a  word  out, four horses hard to catch  up . There are   light words like pink feathers, with   heavy words like mountains. There are  words  like that, but it  is not  . Amendments  were  saying ,  modify  voice,  amendments  are saying, which is  we  've  modified  is  temperaments ,  reduced  by  industrial exports . 

Practice  being  loving  ie  growth  Buddha mind ,  the mind of  compassion  petal. Practice  being  loving  ie up is  mind ghosts , such as: heart  greedy , mind  anger , mind  delusion , heart  jealousy , heart  envy , jealousy, mind  dislike , jealousy, more attention lost , heart  conceit , disdainful attention, praise his heart, mind belittle people. Practice  being  loving speech  that is  practiced  under  vows and compassionate  Lord  Avalokitesvara Bodhisattva , Games silent  sufferingsbeings . Beings  often  suffer  because of the  words  of each other. So  practice being  loving  ie bring  peace  and  happiness  to the  people  around them water  nectar  in the average  purity  of virtue  Avalokitesvara Bodhisattva , poured into  the soul is  heat the brain ,       

All  happiness  in the world are beginning  words  of  us . We  start all  things . We give  birth, the birth. Us  peace, the peace  of liberation . Do not expect others to say good-bye, while you can not do it yourself. 

The West  has the sentence: "Nothing will change if we do not change anything." The grade  parents ,  usually  loving , kind  gentle , sweet,  cute , so  easy to feel informed, along with the children. But sometimes,  parents  have to use, tough words,  strictly prohibited, not cover, to teach, to human beings. Thus there is also another form of  loving ,  done  with  care from  compassionate level of  bodhisattva . In other words, people do not have  compassion  compassionate  charity , unable to have  loving speech  is. Practice  being  loving  ie use  words to  comfort , reassure the  soul  anxiety fear. That is the  fearless gift  of Avalokiteshvara Bodhisattva . Wanted sufferings , first  we  have to perform  under vows  of him. Not just conjure  supplication  that is unsatisfactory  where! That is the fearless gift of Avalokiteshvara Bodhisattva . Wanted sufferings , first we have to perform under vows of him. Not just conjure supplication that is unsatisfactorywhere! That is the fearless gift of  Avalokiteshvara Bodhisattva . Wanted  sufferings ,  first we have to  perform under  vows of him. Not just  conjuresupplication that is  unsatisfactory where! 

We  like to hear,

How words  ,

Say it,

Such words  ,

For others to hear. 

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In summary ,  loving  the  practice  is essential, very  practical , very  popular , very effective, for anyone, not just  Buddhists , on  earth  this'd  build  it, life  meaning ,  Security communicate well  -being. Language  helps  people  improve themselves  . Humans  by confusion should  act  underhanded ,  language  topsy-turvy ,  the notion  so evil ,  chasing  desires , living according to  pagan , do something dishonest.  

Old people have taught: "The evil of the  world  speaks of me,  my soul  , as the plow against the ground."  The  evil word plows  my soul  , but it  enriches my soul . " We  should remember: the Career  sages ,  the Old  east west, often  verbal , critical,  non-market , even  condemned ,  detractors  libel ,  but  they, noble character,  calm  calmly , so hold,  the mind  pure . 

In the scripture have the sentence:

"Nam Mo  Nhat Thiet Chanh Sanh  Hoan Hy  Ants Bodhisattva". 

Meaning those who want  life  at peace , no  negativity , no suffering, as the level  bodhisattva , please  practice  loving  life  lived  every day , of course, will be  all joy  when you meet her. In Buddhism, every sentence concept  roses list Buddhas, or lettered  Bodhisattva , as the saying above, are  meaningful  to teach  us  a well-tu, a  method initiates a  meticulous  practice , not just to  us I recite the  rumbling, not understand anything, 

In the old days , a  sage  with a wife, often  talked a lot . One day, his wife was sick, could not speak, the  sage thoughtful  , that day he died, the opportunity  to practice , to  practice patience  , and listening. 

The Patriarchs have taught:

"Tu tu not learn, it is blind." 
"Study without cultivation, is the bookcase." 

Means: The  rise to  practices  that  cultivate ,  modify  mentality  of himself, but refused to  learn  the doctrine , refused to  learn  the Dhamma , who speak what he hears, nobody said what also believe, that person vulnerable example, in  pagan , easy to get lost in  the pagan , that is  blind . Also someone concerned only  study  to explore ,  educated  to understand more, do not worry  tu Center Nursing identity, refuses to  contemplate  self-interested , just worry  critics criticize  others, only to see the error of people, not find fault ourselves, Is the cabinet, The book, or the bookcase alone, does not benefit  anyone. For example , there are people all day counting money at the owner's bank, there are people all day  buffalo  in the field for the owner, afternoon to go home, no money, no buffalo! 

Such as people,  rise to  practice ,  notice  saying much , just cause  afflictions , having much suffering, not  benefit  anything, he  practiced  under, the practice of silence, but refuses to study, scripture  doctrine , Close your eyes silently, anyone asking, anything, do not  reply ,  shut up mouth , do not cover your  lips , even half words, do not say. Outside looked through, it looks pretty much, within the confusion,  inner  turmoil , storm  carnage , anger  spike hip . Why superficial? Because of that person, he still hears, but can not speak, It's not tolerated, it's a long-term storage, the treasure of the  mind , it's full of stuff, the stories of the  market , the stories, the big stories, everything, Do not crave anymore! Onions that do not learn,   as scary as: deadly venom! END=NAM MO CAKYA MOUNI BUDDHA.( 3 TIMES ).VIETNAMESE TRANSLATE ENGLISH BY=THICH CHAN TANH.THE MIND OF ENLIGHTENMENT.VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST NUN=GOLDEN LOTUS MONASTERY=AUSTRALIA,SYDNEY.4/6/2017.