Often weak or hatred.

When confronted with a fierceness that contentment which itself does not have a solution to handle awake easily lead the people toward anger, which is the property of the weak, petty and selfish. In front of them feel that they are protected, but it brings a lot negativity followed, in the long run, the more harm to ourselves. 
There is a true story like this:

One morning, a girl carries drinking coffee for three, accidentally had spilled coffee on top of three pants, three angry, immediately scold her daughter, then, mother advised him not to scream past me again. So, has become a debate among parents. Since the debate, should parents be late to work, girls are going to school late. So she suggested, he did well in late to work, now, he had to take me to school, take me to work.

After putting the children to school, took his wife to go to work, go to the agency husband was late, managing not satisfied, ask: "Why come late?" Having been in the anger should have been verbal, boss saw him unhappy, and finally, the husband was fired.

Causes father fired, due daughter who spilled coffee on yourself? Or was he late? Or anger because his mind?

This is just one story, but similar incidents regularly occur in the family, society or our weekdays.
 

Buddha taught very poignant that  "A forest fire burning pitch merit" . In Shurangama, he said, "Golf graphic way feel fire." Now we have hatred in the mind is such as hot flashes, red face flushing, remove the coarse words, without thinking. Until not mastered more then can the upper legs, lower forearm ...

Medical standpoint, anger will harm the liver.Because when the body surfaced aversion secrete toxins, toxins can kill the body, but thanks to timely resolve hepatobiliary we have not seen so hazardous. Person or anger, the liver has to work long days, then certainly that person seriously ill patient volume.

In life, any small thing yet, myself also have to pay attention and be careful. We just do it a little merit, if someone just inadvertently do not agree that we stand on the field, as the religious blessing that is spent futilely.

If, after spilling coffee girl whose father can patience, patience just a little too, it will not happen this unfortunate incident.

Rings a little quiet weather will be stable. In the family, the couple stoically cozy homes, in society people know each other, patience peaceful Pacific.

For ourselves we need to take every precaution to anger as fire wood dry season farming so, the moment to pay attention carefully carved. END=NAM MO CAKYA MOUNI BUDDHA.( 3 TIMES ).VIETNAMESE TRANSLATE ENGLISH BY=THICH CHAN TANH.THE MIND OF ENLIGHTENMENT.WORLD VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST ORDER=VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST NUN=GOLDEN LOTUS MONASTERY=AUSTRALIA,SYDNEY.4/12/2016.