We file the affidavit said was an error is solved the story how much trouble. Just a sentence. If you have missed doing with errors that other person then sorry mentality they will also down; as well as who missed his angry sad that they do apologize I will less sad.

III/PERMANENT SELF TEST.

There are two stories about the House they Unfurl them.

One day, the home side they Justified through their home Zhang asked:

"Why are you home to live together happily, very harmonious is or; also my house in three meals is arguing, what life you have home or so? "

Cousin Zhang says:

"No wonder! Everyone in the House I always see themselves as bad people, while the House who also see themselves as good new so should ".

Cousin Li surprised:

"Is that good people why quarrel".

Zhang said:

"Such as having a cup of tea to the table, a person going through unintentionally touched the table, table of chao Tea Cup breaks down. His family do not receive the error, but also the largest responsibility for: "one cup of tea not Comin', right to enter in hot then?". Who to cups of tea also unyielding, argue: "I do that it unintentionally, in England do hot, also responsible for".

Because everyone finds himself well, should happen to new fighting. What if my house is the person to see things so softly apologized: "I miss awkward spilling Cup of tea, so sorry". To listen Cup of tea so, will also say: "also can not blame you, because I didn't to cup of tea near the edge of the table should be touched. This is my fault ". Two people got an out should not quarrel, in the home and always nice. The home is also a good one then the error about the part?

It is also an experience of living, Miss trouble so then we got bugs don't blame anyone. Buddhists understand and live then will see happily. If the error without getting errors then it's dangerous, causing the other angry into out quarrel, dispute each other well from there.

If two people are right that both the right to touch each other, the rubber, obviously so. Should have to get the error, sorry, that's just to live in harmony, fun. This is the actual lesson, we must understand the implications of that to file live in harmony. Like to be right, then test yourself often don't worry about the test.

Thanks to his new-found self test usually is weak spot, wrong place to which this page.

There he doctor Million is Buddhist, often up to court lectured. That day, he's done driving home, driving out the taxi car port coming off the car. Obviously you cab errors, but that he also yelled at to: "The death star that he wanted to run so?". Doctor Million road rules because the news I was so buggy, taxi and fucking loudly, the doctor responded: "New England want to die". Taxi driver challenge: "he's out of here!". The doctor says: "it out rather than fear."

Right now he is about to open the door to step out of the car, the Mainland saw groups of students in the Hall that he had just lectured to, see just a very good instructor that stars such massive horns again recently. The doctor checked his self that Million, saw the disgrace, associated attitude change. Towards him on the other driver: "Oh I'm sorry, was I wrong!". He surprised the driver, but also back to humility, clutching the hands of doctors: "this is my fault, not his." Two fun handshakes and then go.

The Buddhists see the battlefield about to explode but each person rotated early, said getting the error, just bear down low yourself a bit is probably done. Who also himself on, won't get the error should new born story no fun, no good.

We file the affidavit said was an error is solved the story how much trouble. Just a sentence. You will experience how Buddhists. If you have missed doing with errors that other person then sorry mentality they will also down; as well as who missed his angry sad that they do apologize I will less sad.

So, just an apology that can turn graphics into Gospel, transformed into trouble nicely, so why don't we dare say the apology, while no money consuming, expensive silver anything? Review of just because of that pride, because pride is the row should not dare say new barriers. The learner needs to pass, it is also a way to win.

Dhammapada says:

Whether in the field,
Win thousands of thousands of enemy troops,
Win yourself better,
Truly the ultimate victory.
Though the angels, thát,
Though the devil, Brahma,
Nobody win,
Who wins that way.

Mean though for the angels in the sky, although the devil or Brahma is also no one can by who wins, it is a big power, it's hard to do that.

Who knew getting the error was the more powerful, because the weak not sure do. But little dare get error that often see other people's fault. That's at least test their routines that check back often, people should Dhammapada says:

Easy to change see the error,
His new found hard errors.
People search, brake fault
As in rice paddy.
Also his hide errors
As crooks hide the post.

I.e. find bugs people easy, saw his new hard errors. Sorry people trying to cut in rice paddy as search; also sorry I hide for days as the crooks hide the post. It is a habit.

Because often find bugs people that don't see their faults so pretending, then easily annoyed, you keep mistakes, just unfinished hoài without knowing myself also stupid. So, if the person is often missed, again see soi brothers have flaws you sympathize, because long long time I have these stupid, so less frustrating. If the person is always self-judgment, as well as see one wrong bit is frustrated, and then holding the responsibility for whom less is responsible for himself.

It's the experience, is the truth so we often check his self, soi, see what his flaws, dare to get bugs, dare to say sorry, create fun atmosphere, is also making progress. Having seen his flaws, we expect this page to progress, also believes she good then no longer want to hear anyone suggest taught anymore, bigotry, as many errors.

IV/BLAME THEMSELVES BEFORE THE CHARGE.

A weak just to live well is to often blame themselves before the charge. Means to cleverly blame yourself first then responsible for following people, not responsible for people before you. Often people or blame other people before you, we must contrast the Buddhist convent, blame themselves first. That was how much clearance negativity to yourself. Because the responsibility for holding people that dare not blame myself, just blame the people themselves are always good so much negativity, frustrating Student discontent.

Finally, one value for all, responsibility for longer? This is an experience every time you filed to do anything like that for themselves, they must consider themselves find themselves had weaknesses, so new people treated as such. For example, they behave badly, seems despised you, before we have to blame them responsible for themselves before, sure I think there is also defective tu something, or its virtue even should such new. As if his high German, they where bad treatment. Consistent look will find gentle, ease the mind responsible for others. Self check out to overhaul some, piling more claims his virtue, which was then the Center gently and tu pushed. In contrast, yet nothing was responsible for other people, then as being frustrating, as more negativity, air as more heavily.

You read him stories Buddhists Milarepa, He was teacher abused a ridiculous way, but He also still nh n complaint, blame yourself without resentment. He blame his evil career creating allegorical or not met. It is true that before He also created many industry should present evil often blame his back, and he grew more jewelry rings. So the result of his evil message of reduced, and be enlightened in the present life, if He does not take responsibility for the evil karma resentment. If someone knows, fudge advances will have risen. It is important to frequently check back yourself, blame themselves, responsible for his not habit is responsible for people before.

Vietnam has tells the story of the teacher is Currently the first monks of the painted subjects Alone. There are times, He found a fake position, rice was careless hands rise fall down to Earth moment. The master attendant fear too, rush took the hands of Kublai Khan invisible rice. Because Kublai Khan should hurry and rice with ground giving rise to him. He found that blame themselves: "I don't do benefits for one more, the hard-right to supply people like that."

His idea is to find yourself living does not do much for benefits but also to disturb people. From there, He dressed with leaves, eat the fruit gatherers are in the mountain forest rather than dinner so out of need provided. Spent ten years as a result.

That is the spirit of blame themselves, the tu was so then gently not negativity. This is the approach and the experience is for us to learn. The learner must cleverly know soi.

Home meditation teacher tells the story of Lam-Legendary Sense when still taking lessons. Each time, to the French with him Sir Huangbo were eating a stick and did not answer anything. If we go to the bridge that the French encountered cases like sure is responsible for resentment and then removed because of his master's rude too. But he does not blame anything, blame themselves only ignorance, many obstacles along the coast should not unravel are Italy's only teacher. Should such a mind as new major advances, a new Apostolic clergyman.

In Vietnam also has a good story is the "water taxi Pier sixty" talking about Lisa nest Records.

Now, King Tran Nhan Tong tu mountain but also often go to church, visit teach where. Mr. tu follow da head (ascetic) should people claiming called Lisa Early momentum. Because he dressed tu trivial, barefoot, look no more like him, should have come from the school where the Emperor via water taxi dock in Yiyang Township, now the Phuc Kien Thuy district, in the five Township-sea room to visit her sister, Princess tu pagoda in Yiyang, Switzerland.

At the time, Sun had staff officer Township nightfall go check the switch. See monks cloth bag's skinny, probe sticks way out against Marina-boat. Social concerns were tipsy, bossy asked identification of the great musician. The great singer from costly said: "I'm in the mountains, Miss go have the fold should forget to bring papers". Instant view Township grabbed the great singer punched for sixty punches. Just then, the Princess's pick-up to the great artist, saw the Swiss so freaking new General to: "it's the Emperor, why dare mixtures?". Agency Township, heard out the soul, tremble qu theaters down Oh, please. The great singer Wen Guan Township name and must cleverly, from here onwards are * provided * disabilities wine tea, Amir; and then He comes back with his human Princess: "this also due to karma, should not do difficult communes". So, from this new water taxi dock then called sixty-boat dock.

As such, You also blame his karma, by not creating new trouble or not now, he does not blame people. A King, an emperor full authority when the artist still not responsible for resentment that only the humiliation of blame again. For we have this easy to do? That is the lesson of life, is the school spirit of the ancients.

V/BRIEF SUMMARY OF THE

We learn many conclusions, but just remember the word meaning without the application business idea into practical lessons in life, is flawed. You are just 1 hour lecture is finished but the practice do not also done all my life. Just two hours "sorry" you learn all my life, yet also. Not simple. Do not be proud to say I learn most in this nikaya, Nikaya.

Want to learn probably take, first of all we must set to familiar "sorry". Why are internships? Because when you hear easy but do then harder, should have to file. As if anybody was doing okay, then okay, but most of us are not yet so familiar to practice, to live as such. To "say sorry" to have sympathy with each other, to easy extra .spend the self. When Miss doing the lamenting brothers then we must set up the courage, to boldly say "sorry, I have to make you sad". As such, the associated switch, the air will gently, less burdensome. Also if any heavy hand with each other day in and day out, then lamenting the increasingly deep. Live so have fun? As well, if Miss do people upset you boldly said: "I'm sorry" or "I'm sorry" parents. Speak with sincere heart, then no one will disturb more accountable, the air will happily softly, harmony. Must like their family Accounts, both who are also bad people off the air happily, who was also good, argue all the time.

If anyone misses bother brothers, troubling people around but also pride, making the cold side then how life got sympathy? There are many cases, two car crash together, nobody got bugs, people poured through the other, the other poured through the snatch out argument; If Miss touching each other just steps off the bus saying: "sorry I missed you touch" then make sure the lightness. Also, in life if gut blame each other, became discontent with each other, and then being self negativity, life as brought to dark than the status quo, do well just because of bigotry.

So, the learner must manual self test and must speak the word "sorry". There is the mouth speak. Just let the less clever "I" this a moment then lived near each other, trade with each other. Ready sorry all. That is the lesson that all tu people we need to practice.END=NAM MO SAKYAMUNI BUDDHA.( 3 TIMES ).VIETNAMESE TRANSLATE ENGLISH BY=THICH CHAN TANH.THE MIND OF ENLIGHTENMENT.WORLD VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST ORDER=VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST NUN=GOLDEN LOTUS MONASTERY=AUSTRALIA,SYDNEY.23/1/2016.MHDT.