Rejoicing was happy with the joy of others. When you see other people succeed, or do anything that brings in fame, lucre, many people praise, known; gatecrash're really with them their joy.
Buddha said, in turn, rejoice with people who give alms, both almost equal merit because of the faith formation not based on material that is mainly in the effort to transform the mind. The generosity shown in the trying to play their heart, people rejoice trying rid of jealousy. Some people try to rid the mind of generosity to avarice, greed; and extend a loving heart, generosity and detachment. A man tries to eliminate heart rejoice pride, guilt, selfishness, pride, arrogance and envy. Two different people on the form, but the same on efforts made towards the upper center.
Habits often in life, to see her one more talent, money, status, fame, frets and we hate them. Inwardly, I do not want someone better than himself. Who more than us what we want so that their destruction. For example, your friend intelligent learning, always a high point, where to go and people to praise, we feel uncomfortable and want good things that belong to them, not that of the others, which is a sign of jealousy.
Previously I had fallen into such psychological envy, I have school friends may say so ourselves, the two of us ate at and learn together. About learning capacity I would not inferior to that friend, there is something I suffer from illness or headache, trouble concentrating in school longer is, every time I learn headache, see your friends work hard only, I crashed out of jealousy, I fear his committee will learn much better than me. Sometimes jealousy big too bad that made me explore the demand for his friend with the disease as well as their headache to not work hard like that anymore. I envied the health of you, but actually afraid you better than me. Do you fear yourself better so I envy such consciousness.
In the anecdote about Cong Tu Bac Lieu have different stories about wealth contention between Black Public Allies (Tran Trinh Huy) and Bach Cong Son (Le Cong Phuoc). Once Bach Cong Cong Tu Tu and sat drinking Black general, are drinking when someone at the table dropped something bent down to grope in the dark. Seeing this, Bach Public Allies take notes at the same year as the house burned inspiration for finding dropped objects. Envious before floating action of Bach Cong Tu, Tu Black Public consecutive one hundred hooks bill also makes torch burning shed.
He told her several chickens crowing contention is. Seeing someone over her, his superior play is intolerable. Despite the fact that rivalry, competing to come up with the good development, while vying with jealousy, petty, selfish, narrow-minded and extravagant manner like burning money so reprehensible.
Buddha's life and met a lot of harm because of jealousy, envious of the Gentiles. He suffered a lot of humiliation, scolding evil pagan, but notably two braking organizational flagship of pagan to disparage, discredit and his influence on the masses.
Since then establish Sangha religion, forming the Triple Gem, prestige and reputation of the Buddha on the increase, the masses provided him toward winter day. The pagan cults and therefore lost a lot of material resources offered by the masses. They said to each other that when Buddha appeared, prestige, reputation and their avaricious lost a lot. They resentment and meeting sought to stigmatize, destroying the reputation of the Buddha. They think of the tactics used to harm his lust. In their disciple with her Sun Da Loi (Sundary) is the most beautiful, can humiliate Buddha. They were very disappointed when the lost suffering avaricious and expressed her thanks to humiliate Buddha to regain the reputation and their avaricious.
Sun multicore agree, everyday when it was nearly dark, people from Member States Vihara, where the Buddha was in back then her head toward his residence, who asked, she responded was to incense Buddha's Furniture . Early in the morning she went from manual Fine amnesty, people ask where she slept the night, she would answer back in incense Interior contingent of Buddha.
Over a week like this, some religious groups hired thugs to kill her and then toss determined the campus residence. Then they hit the news Ton Da Loi was missing and reported to the king. King for search commands, and they found her body inside a garbage dump located in Member States Vihara. They proclaim the monks believe, disciple of Buddha afraid exposed his evil work should have killed Ton Da Loi to hide guilt. They proclaim the message across.
Soon the king to investigate the case, and soon, the king's spies have caught the group of thugs who killed her in a pub. The case was investigated clear, the pagan king began to go around the city reported back to true: because they want to humiliate the Buddha, we have to kill Chun Da Loi. Ascetic Gotama and his disciples not guilty.
Stories harmed second with such a technique, also used beautiful girls frequenting the Buddha Vihara, but the ending was different scenarios, this is not her death, but for the false pregnancy . Over nine months right, one day the Buddha was preaching, among the congregation was listening intently, suddenly she appeared reviled blame Buddha vivant, enjoying her body without accountability, to day Her unborn and that he does not worry, give her the things necessary for childbirth. Showing scolding, mocking of the opponent swung the fake belly unexpectedly falling. Everybody saw it chased her out of the monastery.
On the contrary, our Lord Buddha's very spirit of religious tolerance. Upali was a rich, famous disciple of the cult Ni-hopea-Prince, one day hear cases ascetic, a priest of the cult Ni-hopea-mail, restated the view of the Buddha is in three now, the most important business, he and Ayatollah Ni-hopea-Prince did not accept because of his sect policy is now dark matter itself. Upali consent and encouragement of Cardinal Ni-hopea-mail, go to the polemic with the Buddha.
In debates, he was convinced by the wisdom of the Buddha. He delighted and pleased to pay homage to the refuge as his disciple. Buddha said that a famous person like him before deciding what to think really mature.
Admired before teachings of Buddha, Upali prostrated again for refuge as his disciple. Buddha accepted and advised him to continue to make offerings to their old religion. Again Upali admired virtues of tolerance of the Buddha, he fell at the third time and said to the emotional words from the bottom of my heart: Buddha, I rejoice greatly, extremely satisfied with the words World Religion tells you. Buddha, if the Gentiles was the disciple, they will positively flag up and declare: Homeowners Upali has become our disciple. And they would tell me not to be offered to other religions, their offerings are blessed.
For other religions, their adherents scramble each one, especially the rich and fame as Upali denominational also wish to have him in his religion. By the rules of his instruction not to bring more avaricious, that reputation is also high.
Jealousy can occur between these organizations with the other unions, associations with other associations, group against group, people with other people.
For example, in the workplace, if someone expressed their more talented, granted on endearing, we begin to feel uncomfortable, sometimes expressed outwardly cheerful greeting every time they met, but in hatred spicy bitter hate that person and seek to criticize, defame to discredit the enemy, destroy enemy happiness are.
In the temple, too, how often you close and dear abbot, we feel uncomfortable and sought to defame this position to the monk no longer trust and endearing, it's jealousy very dangerous. Or you're certain to find many Buddhists are interested, beloved, often receive gifts, hearts we do not like. My discomfort was because deep down, I wanted to be like that, but not so envy arose to undermine what other people are. Sometimes I envy the people who believe more effort practice. Once there he found Lord Buddhas mind, a teacher told me that he worshiped filter that something, he merely wanted to compliment the abbot dud in their practice only.
Bao An animal Venerable has four dogs, I watched them devour each other vying to monopolize the love of the Master. Four children, but there are two smaller children, said police could not scramble up the unit, and two children to equal, regularly snapping at each other, whenever the children see the other side of the Master's tangerine wrap it jumps to bite chase children the other goes. It is very pungent bite blood, once we get the bats can still not be.
Seeing the dogs bite each other's loving all scrambled, but feel bad for the human condition, if we do not have mind blowing option, only jealousy, contention over lost, not the other as the other dogs, except that people do not use violence to each other directly, but evil tricks to depose each other only.
Buddhists go to the temple to do work through, doing good, too, can not avoid mutual jealousy. See the other person close friendship with the monk, proved reluctant. Buddhists have told me that, she is also credited with A temple to have too much power so as not to be. It is also a manifestation of jealousy, others have seen their better interests should not like. Then there are people who stick with long temples, from temples remains difficult, all the charitable merit one hand people are worried of all, this new person came along, work hard, more efficient, more people more sustained support, how is this person stab the discomfort, to find ways of criticizing, denigrating, setting up party friends, urging people to boycott the other.
In fact, this man was not jealous because the other person to do more charity work, but because of the prestige and the influence of their larger man. Inwardly, this person wants to have credibility and biggest influence, but does not help, see other people have what you want but do not be so jealous consciousness.
Seeing other people are reputable and do their job better, if well cultivated depending joy, his joy, praise, praise and support that's right people, because someone so charitable works of the temple was more achievements, many difficult misfortune more help. Anyone depending blowing center with good achievements of others, life becomes joyful harmonious how unique.
When done something successfully or having something lucky, we often congratulate, cheer each other. But in the words of praise to one another, there are a few honest words? So polite, due to social, it may appear fun outside, but inside there is envious. Or when traumatic events, people to mutual sympathy, but really there are few genuinely condolences. The story of the blind and worthy of our meditation illuminates Bankei back of his mind. Before the entrance of Zen master Bankei with a blind man. Do not see the faces of other people, but he has very sensitive ears, just heard that can assess the mood of others, that they honestly or not genuine.
He once said: "to hear a compliment the success of others, I also heard the secret of their hearts, it is a jealousy. When you hear someone condolences to the suffering of others, I still hear the secrets of their hearts is joy gloating. Only Zen master Bankei, when complimented someone something or congratulate someone something, I listen to full sincerity of his joy. When he heard expressed sadness for the sadness of someone, I hear the sadness entirety like "
Depending blowing unfortunate practice is important, as one of ten virtues of the Bodhisattva Samantabhadra. Depending blowing unfortunate practice when faced with good results but its not, we remain excited as his main achievement to do so. In practice, depending blow people's minds always praying for other people so much better than him, than his success. What you want to achieve are expecting others to achieve and always excited and happy with the good things others do and achieve.END=NAM MO SAKYAMUNI BUDDHA.( 3 TIMES ).VIETNAMESE TRANSLATE ENGLISH BY=THICH CHAN TANH.THE MIND OF ENLIGTHMENT.WORLD VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST ORDER=VIETNAMESE BUDDHIST NUN=GOLDEN LOTUS MONASTRY=AUSTRALIA,SYDNEY.10/10/2015.